#10954-Story of a not so lucky girl with simple looks, simple dreams. When she joined Infosys almost 6 years ago, she was a happy go Lucky girl whom many admired. Had lots of friends. A good friend once expressed his feelings just a day before he left onsite. She did like him too, But did not confess as she knew the guy was already engaged to a girl the family had arranged and did not want to break another innoc. She hid her feelings until one day when the guy called her, got emotional and told her that he cannot think of living without her. When she confessed and asked if the guy could talk to both families and the girl more importantly, he turned cold foot. When her family came to know, they treated her very badly saying she wanted to break another girls prospective home. Though the girl had not spent much time, the feeling was so strong that the Girl was left emotionally shattered and took years to come out of it. She broke all contact with him and couple of years later the guy got married to the girl he was engaged. Two years later, she came across an old friend through social networking site, who expressed his feelings, but she found out that the feelings were temporary and the guy just wanted someone around for time pass. The guy also told her that he cannot commit for marriage as they both belonged to different states and his family did not understand the language the girl spoke. She severed all contacts with him.The guy later had an arranged marriage. A year later, a very good friend of hers in Infosys proposed her for marriage. He also told her that though he did not wish, his family is looking for dowry which the girl was against. But she also knew a bitter truth that he liked another girl who belonged to a different community and it was two sided, but could not get married as families would not agree and now the girl was getting married to someone else. The next day she received an email from the other girl saying she was still emotionally attached to the guy, and if the girl was OK with that. When the girl talked to the guy about it he remained silent and Couple of days later told that his family is not agreeing to this marriage and withdrew. She was left with very low confidence.The girl now thought that there is something wrong in her and went into depression and on antidepressants. She broke all contact with him. He left for onsite and a year later had an arranged marriage. Two years later, her family decided on a guy who was working as a class one officer with Indian government. She met the guy and agreed. He seemed to be a good guy and used to praise her a lot and used to write poetries for her. His family too showered a lot of love on her. She started liking him.But the guy later came up with huge expectations on dowry not limited to a luxury flat in a metro and luxury car. The expectations were beyond the families capabilities. He later started making fun of her looks saying her looks were not upto her expectations. She was shattered and withdrew from it. Her depression continues and she thinks if it is normal? Though the girl manages to stay alone, She often questions me if it is wrong for a girl to expect pure and everlasting love from someone. She has lost confidence in people and has major issues trusting anyone when her parents bring proposals for marriage. She always wants to know if everyone in this world is selfish and materialistic or she is just born unlucky to find them. Her personality has changed from a happy go lucky girl who enjoys company to a calm and composed individual who prefers staying alone. Any suggestions which I can pass on to her?
Posted on: Sun, 11 Jan 2015 06:23:38 +0000
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