A Wise Woman Advising Her Son Son ! Beware not to talk about others and issues…until you are sure about the source and authenticity...If one comes to you with information confirm before being hasty… and beware of rumors! Do not believe everything that is said and half of what you see….and if Allah is trialing you with an enemy…fight him with goodness…push with what is best…for I swear…that hatred will turn to love….imagine!! If you want to find a friend…travel with him…in traveling the person exposes himself…the truth comes out… the hidden shows… and that is why safr is called safr…because the manners and attitudes shows! If people are to attack you and you are with the truth…or throw at you criticism… be happy… for they are telling you are you successful and effective… for the dead dog…is not to be kicked! And is only the fruitful tree is thrown at!! Son! When you criticize anyone…with the eye of a bee look(for nectar)… and not with the eye of a fly(for filth)…for you will fall on what is dirty! Sleep early my Son… for earning is in the morning….and I fear the bounties of Allah will pass you …because you slept late! I will tell you the story of the lamb and the wolf so you don’t trust who betrays…and when one trusts you beware not to betray! I will take you to the home of the lion…and I will show you that the lion didnt become the king of the jungle because he can roar!!... but because he is proud of himself! He doesnt eat a prey that others hunted! No matter how hungry he is… imagine… don’t steal the efforts of others… and become abusive! I will take you to the chameleon… so you can see for yourself how it changes its colors! For it changes it’s skin with colors of its place…so you know among people who are like it…! And there are hypocrites… and people who are in every color and claim good…to hind behind Get used my Son! to be grateful… thank Allah! ... it’s enough that you can walk…and hear… and see! Thank Allah! ... Allah wants those who are grateful… and thank people for people like those who thank them when they are served!!! Find my Son… that the greatest manner in life is…. Honesty! And lying even if it saves…for honesty is more of who you are!! Son…Have an alternative for yourself in everything… be prepared for everything… so you don’t find yourself begging a low life… and become humiliated!! … benefit from every occasion … for chances that come now … might never come again!! Do not whine and do not complain… I want you to be optimistic… while approaching life… flee away from those who are pessimistic and superstitious! And beware to sit with a person who is superstitious!!! Do not feel good about a trail that others go through… and do not mock others for their looks… for no one created themselves… within your mocking you are mocking the one that made them and imaged them!!! Do not expose others mistakes… for Allah will expose your mistakes while you are in your home… for Allah is the one that covers and loves those who cover! He doesnt aggress anyone… and if your ability calls you to aggress against others…remember His ability for He is more capable!!! If you ever feel stiffness than run your hand over an orphan’s head and you will be amazed how that will erase the stiffness in your heart! Do not argue… in argument … both parties lose! And when we lose we lose our honor and ego and if we win we lose the other person… we both have lost… who ever thought he won and who ever thought he lost! Do not be a loner with your opinion… in is beautiful to influence and be influenced… but be alert not to melt in other people’s opinions… and if you feel that your opinion is correct… than be firm and don’t be influenced!! You can O’ my Son! change people’s convictions… and cultivate people’s hearts without them knowing… not with magic or illusions… but with your smile… and soft words…with them you can possess others!!! Smile … for glory to Allah who made the smile part of our religion and reward us for it!!! In China… if you don’t smile they don’t allow you to open a store… if you don’t find anyone that smiles for you than you smile for others! For your mouth with smile will open hearts that you can talk to!! When a doubt is planted in people’s heart towards you… defend yourself…clear…explain! Do not be nosy putting your nose in every issue standing with everyone that stands… son stay away from all of this for it bothers me!! My Son, don’t be sad about life! For we were created to be tested and trialed… until Allah sees us… don’t you see??? For that… be easy on yourself… and don’t be stressed… and be sure the solution is near… when the darkness of clouds grows darker for soon the rain will fall!! Do not cry about the past… it’s enough that it passed… for it is a joke to hold on to a saw and continue to cut!! Look at tomorrow… be prepared… roll your sleeves!! Be dignified… and be proud of yourself! For as you see yourself others will see you… so never in any day you look down at yourself!! For you will grow whenever you want to grow… and you alone will decide to shrink down!! If you wish to fix the universe …. I tell please … don’t !! we don’t want to lose evil...imagine the universe without cheaters? And without liars… how will the righteous live??? How will we live?? And how will we become the known and the loved?! I decided to raise you when you were in my womb… so you become the greatest… and if you ask why I started so early! You will find out if a person grows old…then miracles won’t help him… unless he himself changes!
Posted on: Thu, 21 Nov 2013 20:33:54 +0000
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