Alright moms and stepmoms. Here is an inbox message from a member. Lets all help! I will start off with some back ground information first. My DH and I have been together five years in July. We just got married in August last year. BM did not know about me for about 4 months, but once she found out about me right away she accused me of forcing the kids to call me mom. Which never happened. She would try and get information about me from people around town that she knew that I also knew. First two years were decent but once she found out we were getting married all hell broke lose. She has told the kids that shes so fat because all she does is eat, She is nothing to you and will never be anything to you She has physically taken them from me at a baseball game because lord only knows why and told me I am NOT their mother and I am done playing house with her kids. She has admitted to stalking me, she has been INSIDE my house while no one was there, she has taken stuff out of our mail box. And then here is the worst one, she called CPS on me ( and I watched kids for a living at the time) accusing me of hurting my SD trying to damage our relationship. Which never happened. CPS was a year ago and court just ended in November with my husband receiving 6% more time than he did before, with still legal joint custody. So here is the advice I am seeking In the new court order they agreed to meetings once a month(something I suggested so they could talk about the kids health school behavior problems etc...) Well she had texted my husband asking if all four of us ( her SO as well) should attend these meetings. And I simply told him that I did not feel comfortable at this time because of said above issues . He explained that to her, and she said that she would like to talk mother to mother. I understand she is trying, but part of me is very cautious because I have NEVER over stepped my boundaries with her as their mother and she has continuously hurt me and SKs because now they feel they cant have a relationship with me without hurting their mother. So I guess what I am asking is, what would you do in this situation? Suck it up and go to meetings with the other ones, or wait a few months to see how things pan out?
Posted on: Sat, 01 Feb 2014 17:27:25 +0000
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