Are you a Real Woman??? Follow-up to the other post from yesterday. This is totally my opinion and maybe not everyones. A real woman will see the love that her husband or boyfriend has for her with the little things that the does for her. She will be his biggest fan and his best friend. She will allow him to set her apart from others and let him show the world what you mean to him. She will Let him open doors and pull out chairs and anything else he wants to do to show his undying love for you to anyone that will see. Not because she is not able but because she understands his need to be a man and show that he is not above being a gentleman to the woman he loves. She will not ever put him down when he has failed trying to be more than he is to benefit his family. When he has failed and he will, she will be there to lift him up and encourage him and tell him how proud she is to be with such a loving and caring person that would try to make things better even if he failed, the important part was that he tried. She will do little things for him that are unexpected. Like putting a little note in his lunch, writing an I Love You on the mirror, or some little surprise that will say that she appreciates what he does for the family. She will never kick him while he is down, because she knows that he has already heard that from others and himself for failing. She will appreciate the love he has for her, she will appreciate the respect he has for her and the support that he will give her through the hard times when life is so difficult that you feel you cant go on, He is feeling these same things and feels the weight of the world on his shoulders, but he still hides it all to be there for you as if he is immune to it. She will let him know that she appreciates the things that he does for her and the family. The hard work and long hours put in to only try to make life a little better for the whole family. She will know that he never thinks of himself and would give the shirt off his back to help a friend. She will NEVER EVER take something that is said in confidence between him and her and spread it outside the confidence of a husband and wife. The things that are said to each other is to be held in the utmost privacy and should never be spoken outside that. Had that been the case he would never had told her in the first place. She will never take their shortcomings and pass them on to others. She will respect his position and appreciate the things that he has to do to be the man that he is. You have no idea what it means to have the things he does appreciated. It will be like building a fire in his soul and will push him to be the best he can be, to take care of his family. And listen Ladies, The quickest way to kill a relationship is to not trust him, be jealous of him and not appreciate what he does. When he is not appreciated he will always feel as if he has failed even when he didnt, and will constantly try harder to be better until finally he accepts defeat and his spirit is broken and his soul is vexed to depression. I know all to well this story and beg you all to do the little things to let him know that he is loved, cherished, honored, respected and that you are PROUD of him and proud to walk beside him. knowing that this man will do anything in this world to make you happy if you would only give him the chance.
Posted on: Sun, 24 Nov 2013 03:12:06 +0000
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