Because it really is alright! I hate it when some undercover agents of the undeclared Facebook Police are all the time after you observing your Likes and Comments. Okay, if you didnt Like someones status, its most probably because you didnt see it, thanks to so many things roaming in your newsfeed. Its also possible that you were too busy somewhere and you Liked it for the time being to Comment later. Or maybe you didnt have anything to say over that. Isnt it that in our day today life, we like things yet only smile and dont say anything. But here, youre already under arrest for merely Liking what you were supposed to Comment on. And even if you see it, and you didnt Like it, then the person posting it should have the courage to accept the fact that everyone holds the right to either Like or ignore. Theyre not disliking it (due to the unavailability of such an option) so it should be alright if someone doesnt Like what you posted. Its polite on their part to ignore. Secondly, the stupidest thing ever. The Comments. If you Comment on one profile and in the same day you failed to see an update in another profile and didnt Comment... now thats a crime. You owe an answer for that and you must be careful next time not to ignore. But... Ignore? Are you serious? I didnt even see if your post ever appeared in my newsfeed because Ive other people on my profile too, and they also post one thing or another, without realizing that they should spare the entire space for you to occupy? this is what you want to ask but who wants to take up a fight for Facebook, so you just end up checking their profile, searching the status/post/pic in question and then Comment over it. Dont forget to Like it also. Because if you dare to forget Liking it, then another question will come vrooming faster than Michael Schumachers speedy race track F1, Thanks for the Comment but you didnt Like it I think, yeah? And then this doubt that maybe you exchange more Comments with some and less with some. But no one will care to realize that its all because of the kind of conversation you have had. Sometimes you give your inputs through your comments because theyre required or perhaps youre having a group discussion, sometimes youre just trolling because you also deserve some fun, and then there are times when you dont have much to say because there isnt much to talk about. Isnt it? This should be normal. You know most of us use Facebook mobile. I stopped using it since a month or more because it was literally spoiling my routines and I dont like addictions. Besides, now I use it from my laptop to check the maximum updates in my newsfeed in order to avoid missing something important. Yet, sometimes things go unnoticed because theres too much appearing in your newsfeed. Anyway, when youre using a mobile Facebook, all you do is a quick check on newsfeed and then youre doing something else, but of course, if by your bad luck, an important status update skipped from there, youre dead. Well if something is that much important, for example your marriage, why not personally share it with the people you consider close to you? Why not make them feel important by picking up your phone to call them and tell them or if thats too much then inbox them an individual message? You could even send one message to your close ones, in a group or individually. See, you make others feel like General Public by posting one great news for all and then you complain that you were not treated exclusively for that piece of news just because the poor some didnt get to see it. This is irrational. Theres another thing. The Tagging. Now when youre tagged in something, youre bound to Like it, and Comment over it. If you dont do, youre a red-handed criminal. You cant escape the fact that YOU IGNORED. Who cares if you didnt really quite Like or agree with the thought shared in THAT status or post? Important is that the person who shared it WANTS YOU TO Like and Comment. I feel that there are times when all that Tagging means is, AGREE WITH ME over what I have shared. New Gen Human Race, where to go and suicide? Please spare each other from this burden. Incidentally, why one needs to go and suicide somewhere or think of other options? The whole setup is available here on Facebook. People will generously throw poisonous arrows at you for not Liking/Commenting making you oh-so-depressed for doing something you didnt really do. So what does it mean? That we all have no life at all except for noticing what each one of us is doing here on Facebook. Im not against Facebook. I use it myself. This write-up of mine youre reading at my Facebook blog, right. But I am against being too narrowminded when youre using a wide social network with a newsfeed that updates within secondshe. And I am against using it too much, becoming too curious about others, observing them and then targeting them with your interrogation about their Likes and Comments. I love writing and whenever I post something, I want it to be read and if someone comments, I feel good to have received some feedback, but even if a well-written post by me, goes unnoticed, I dont have any issues. Putting something (specially if its important) over Facebook is just like putting something on a boundary fence beside a fast track road. The traffic is passing so fast, theyd hardly notice whats written there on that. So if someone is Liking, feel good. If someone Comments, be happy. And if there is no Like or Comment, stay positive and believe that its alright. Because it really is alright. :) And I suggest never putting important news or updates on Facebook. Instead talk to your loved ones in person, and have an instant feedback right there that saves you and them from a huge misunderstanding and doubts and strengthens your relationships. ..a..
Posted on: Sat, 25 Jan 2014 15:40:00 +0000
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