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Communication challenges in relationships are extremely common. A great deal of concerns are centered around one partner not sharing enough or failing to discuss the issues bothering them most. As you might imagine, this leaves the other partner frustrated and questioning the foundation of the relationship. Communication or lack thereof can make or break a partnership. What most people don’t realize is our spouse won’t always communicate the way we do or exactly how we feel they should. Instead of allowing that irritation to build, there are alternatives to connecting with a spouse who doesn’t always utilize their words to express themselves. Here are 3 communication alternatives: 1. Be more attentive to the non-verbal communication We must make it a habit to listen even when actual words aren’t being spoken. Believe it or not, our spouse will tell us, not always in words, what they need. The more observant we are, the more we’ll notice certain behaviors and habits. We should also pay attention to what they do frequently. The things they pursue or where they invest their time and energy are usually what are most important. So even if they never express their likes or dislikes, we get an idea just by observing. 2. Ask all the right questions Our spouse may not always be forthright with information, so we should take the opportunity to ask clarifying questions or ones that provide a deeper explanation of things said or actions taken. How we ask those questions is going to be key. We never want to appear Nagy, too aggressive or like it’s an interrogation. We have to create a safe and loving place for our partners to share when they are ready. 3. Lead by example The more vulnerable and willing we are to share our deepest truths, the more comfortable our partners will feel to do the same. Doing this means we aren’t necessarily tied to the results; we aren’t just sharing so our spouse will. We are sharing because there are certain things we want our partners to know about us. The more they learn about whom we are, especially the fact they can trust us with everything, the sooner they will be willing to open up too. While we wait for our mates to become the communicators we know they are, we have to demonstrate patience. Embracing where are spouses are right now relieves some of the frustration we feel. As long as they are communicating the basics, it isn’t always as bad as it appears.
Posted on: Sat, 18 Jan 2014 05:34:54 +0000

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