DO YOU WANT PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU? It is a natural desire to want people to like you. Below are bad and good ways to or not secure the favour of others, : 1.EXPENSIVE CLOTHING:- While it is true that expensive clothing may give, to the wearer, a sense of poise and security, yet it is false to to assume that clothes make the man. Some well dressed peole are about as attractive to others, as a fashionably dressed manikin, in an exclusive clothing store window. It is charm that makes one desirable and charm resides in personality and not in a suit of clothes or a stylish frock. It is when one adopts a feeling of inferiority because of his dress that his clothing becomes a serious social barrier. It is neatness and cleanliness that make people look attractive and not the ability to count suits and dresses one for each day in the week. 2.THE CONVERSATION.- you do not have to talk all the time to have people like you. The surest way to drive them from you is to talk incessantly. If you talk too much, you will drift into conversations that you will regret later. A conversation that involves speaking of others with disrespect will do more to separate you from aquaintances than almost any other thing you can do. Inability to talk shows lack of resourcefulness. There is nothing in our minds that we can bring out. Interesting conversationalists are first of all good listeners; they ask question of common interest and have store their minds with knowledge. Because they talk what they know. 3. WHAT TO REMEMBER- you should call peoples names and call persons by name. They will like you for remembering them individually. Recall pleasant things that you know or have heard about their lives. No one will like you, if all you can remember about him is his failures and mistakes, i cant blame him if he shuns your companionship. 4. OVER-SOLICITOUS.- kindness and consideration are always appreciated, but those who appreciate the over-solicitous person are mental cases. You do yourself a social injustice, if you adopt a fond parental attitude toward another. As people grow older they may respond to such treatment, but young people are irritated by it.
Posted on: Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:43:38 +0000
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