Daily Dose of Deborah Saturday October 25, 2014 WHo are you? - TopicsExpress

Daily Dose of Deborah Saturday October 25, 2014 WHo are you? I always find it amazing when a topic or quote or ideology comes up over and over in various circles and situations out of the blue..! This week, I have heard from several different sources- articles online, quote in a magazine, and GK and I discussing the notion of We become who we hang out with..! The article was a llll abut looking aground you at the 5 people who you interact with and hang out with the most often. And through THEIR character and experiences, you can get a glimpse of who YOU are..! I found this .. intriguing and amazing.. and then.. THRILLING. As I really bond in on the 5 people i spend most of my time with, I became acutely aware of a few things! 1.. I no longer have a SINGLE relationship out of need! Meaning. I dont have ANY ties to anyone simply because they HAVE to be in my life. THRILLING. 2. I dont have a single person in my life who DOESNT look inward for answers and insights! Not a one! Everyone I speak with on a daily basis loves to grow , evolve and change! 3. They are all willing to see their faults and work on them. 4. They all love to have great conversation! Not the petty gossipy kind ! 5. None of them speak negatively about anyone , or events! 6. They are all hard workers who dont believe they are entitled to anything! 7. They all put up with people in their lives that drain them, and yet they do not allow it to affect their wellbeing..! 8. They all know how to LAUGH ! (at themselves and just enjoy life!) 9. They are all willing to step out of their comfort zones! 10. They are all authentic and MOST are in a job they LOVE- they dont even call it a JOB. 11. They are optimistic and hopeful about the future. 12. They love culture and learning new things! 13. They are all QUITE KIND. 14. They are all sensitive . 15. They want to see others do well! 16. They are not afraid a llll the time. 17. They are willing to show their vulnerability! 18. They are REAL. 19. They arent perfect! 20. They dont TRY to be.. !! Wow!! I could add many more things I observed, but this exercise excited me! I love those who are around me.. and this observation of them has made me even more grateful FOR them in my life! Today. Take inventory on the people who you spend the most time with. Notice their behaviors and how they hold themselves in the world. Notice how they treat others. Notice what is in alignment with you and your inner core.. and what isnt! Have fun!