Excerpt from THE MANUAL - Being A Lover Figuratively speaking, - TopicsExpress



          

Excerpt from THE MANUAL - Being A Lover Figuratively speaking, a person can bang their head against a brick wall for only so long before they must concede that doing so hurts. This is similar to how I came to the conclusion that infidelity and promiscuity are things a Real Man shouldn’t pursue. Simply put, I was tired of having my heart broken. I got weary of choosing the wrong women for the wrong reasons. I was emotionally drained from failed relationships that yielded no lasting reward. Slowly, the realization that womanizing was wrong began to dawn on me in my early thirties. The key for me was learning to be honest with myself first before being involved with a woman. I learned to determine if I was really interested in a woman or not. I learned to ask myself if I honestly could see myself being with her for a long term relationship or a short term relationship. I learned to evaluate if I was capable of loving her properly or improperly. But, often, I kept this information to myself, which lead these young women astray because they believed I was their knight in shining armor. What I learned too late was that by conducting myself in this manner I was stopping myself from actually finding the right person. That’s karma. In the end, I realized that you cant play a game wrong but expect the outcome to be right. I was playing with a lot of women’s affections without any interest in committing to a relationship. All the while, I was secretly hoping to find The One.” I know now that was backwards thinking at its finest. I look at my daughters and I strongly believe they deserve good God-fearing, wholesome, honest, faithful, loving, hard-working men to marry. I hold special regard for them. But, somewhere along the lines, we, as men, disconnect the women in our families from the women we meet in the club, the women at work, or the women on the street. The shocking truth is they are no different from the women in our families. Someone somewhere is hoping and praying that a good man with good intentions coupled with integrity will come along for their mother, daughter, sister, aunt, cousin, or friend. It’s a God-given right for a woman to be loved properly. As a man, if I can’t fulffll that obligation to a woman, then I should be man enough to acknowledge that and step aside so that the right man can. This is what I was denying the women I dated. I now firmly believe I should leave a woman in a better condition than how I found her. If you find it in your heart to contribute to this project, please follow the link below:indiegogo/projects/the-manual-from-adolescence-to-manhood/x/6308358. U can also purchase a copy by following this link: amazon/dp/149523889X .
Posted on: Fri, 07 Mar 2014 13:19:44 +0000

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