Fridays tip of the day! You are in control. Whether you succeed or fail is your choice. Whether your positive or negative is up to you. People always play the blame game and if you want to succeed you have to stop. Stop blaming your past, your distributor that just quit, your children, your job, your spouse, YOU HAVE TO STOP! Excuses and blaming are the two biggest things a person will do when they fail or give up. Its never our own fault. Most of us have done one of those two things when things go wrong our entire lives. But we know deep inside we personally were responsible for the outcome. Its just much easier to blame or excuse then it is to admit that we failed. So how do you stopb this vicious cycle? It has to be stopped or I promise you that you will not succeed. Here are some tips on taking ownership and seeing that success I know you all deserve. 1.) Let Go! Thats right let go of the past! Most people fail because they just will not let go of past failures or bad things that have happened to them. The second something goes wrong the revert back to past failures. I promise you that you cannot succeed if you dont let go. I failed at everything I tried in my life before It Works and look where I am! 2.) Move on. Now that you let go you have to move on! Its a new day and things are different now. Whatever bad luck you have had is gone because the Lord has put It Works in your life and it is your time to shine. 3.) Negative talk! Stop it! You are what you speak. If you speak negative and expect negative that is exactly what will be drawn to you. Speak your new life into exhistence. Write down the amazing things that are happening to you now and the amazing things you plan to get in your future. 4.) Gratitude! Be thankful for what you do have and the path God has lead you to. Make a gratitude journal and write down all the things your thankful for. If you really think about it you have plenty to be thankful for that had nothing to do with income. When you get down or start speaking negative. .. grab your journal and begin to speak out loud all the amazing blessings in your life. Make this a habit... something you y do every morning before starting your day and every night before bed. 5.) Start admitting! The second you find yourself making an excuse or blaming someone. ..stop... then be honest with yourself! You will begin to see that it is your choice not to move forward. We all do it. ...I cant blitz because I have the kids or I have to get these dishes done or I couldnt find a baby sitter or I forgot to call those leads its just been so busy. When you say things like that ask yourself could I have taken the kids with me if I really wanted to or could I have waited on the dishes and laundry for one hour or did I really not have 10 minutes to call some leads? You know as well as I do that we all dont work our businesses like we should because of choice. 6.) Change your mindset! You do this by doing tips 1 thru 5! It wont be easy and it wont happen overnight. It will be practicing every day little by little. In fact even 4 years in I still practice and catch myself but I get better and better all the time. Self development by reading is a huge help and there are 1000s of amazing books out there on the topic of mindset. 7.) Keep surrounding yourself with like minded people! People that you admire and want to be where they are. People that have the same vision, goals, and dreams! People that believe in you and breath life into your dreams. People that will help you be a better person and help you change from someone who uses excuses and blames into someone that takes ownership and wants to succeed! People are always looking for me to post the How To Tips and those are great .....but.... 95% of your success in this business will be because of your mindset and personal growth! It wasnt until I did the above tips that I truly started seeing success. You see doing the perfect party or saying the right words or knowing every product and how it works is not the thing that will make you successful. ... it will be your mindset, excitement, and belief that will make people want to join you! It will be you who has taken ownership of your success that takes you to the top. I have never done anything perfect. .. Im just a waitress and a mom. .. but what I have done is changed my mindset and realized success l or failure is on me. If I continued to excuse and blame I wouldnt be here right now! I hope everyone that reads this tip will take it to heart. I hope you all begin your journey of self development and a brand new mindset. Your home work this weekend is to start your gratitude journal. Trust me. ..it will be the best thing you have ever done to date for your business. Have an amazing weekend WRAPSTARS!♡♡♢♢♡♡♢♢
Posted on: Fri, 21 Nov 2014 05:17:55 +0000
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