Group Input Needed: Help! Im trying to squint through floods of tears as I write this and preparing for trial tomorrow, all without an attorney. My Ex NNN has painted the blackest of pictures of me to the court and to the evaluator. I have been up all night, trying to write my closing argument and dont want it to look like Im tearing my ExN down and do what is best by our beautiful little boy - but the ExN has broken so many laws (including recording me illegally for over 4 years) not abided by court multiple orders (not paid child support, didnt bring my son back in the country and not paid court ordered attorneys fees for example) and I have found so many court rules and laws the evaluator has broken. The evaluator has had multiple ex parte communications with the ExNNN for over and year and with the ExNs attorney and I have 2 witnesses who have testified that the evaluator told them it was his job to ensure my ExN got custody. My ExN has got 2 people that support him, members of family that I have nothing to do with for 25 years and they have written declarations supporting my ExN. My ExN NEVER knew these people when we were together. He NEVER met them yet he has gone on a witch hunt. I have been the sole carer for my little boy who so happy, enrolled in school, soccer, swimming, karate, tennis and golf. I made sure he attended every doctor appt and dentist visit and was heavily involved in his school. My ExN did not visit my sons school for over 2 years when he would come in and visit! Yet - the report went against me and the ExN has claimed PA and abuse. I have never raised to my son and I have encouraged visitation and even facilitated extra visits, but these have not been acknowledged. My son was sent to another country, to temporarily live with complete strangers and since that time, the ExN has failed to bring our child back in to the US for 2 visits, doesnt allow frequent contact and cuts our calls off. He hasnt taken our son the the doctor when he had 2 colds and chest infections and has missed a dental appointment. Youd think pending court, the ExN would be on his best behavior - but has got worse, thinking he has won already and the trial is minor thing. The evaluator has also been coaching the ExN. Im sorry for babbling on, but I have so many things to show the court what the ExN has done wrong but dont want it to look like Im the one that is being the bitter one. I just want my little boy home where he has been raised, never abused and has thrived. I am trying to focus on the law and facts but I just dont have faith that justice will prevail and that the court will allow my son to live in another country, which he is not a citizen of. I am searching for advice as to how to write my closing argument and show the judge how disrespectful the ExN is being to the court and the rules that have been broken and he is not doing what is in the best interest of our son. My 5 year old has been gone since September. My heart is breaking. Im sorry....I just feel sick to my stomach. Sick.
Posted on: Sun, 26 Jan 2014 15:56:52 +0000
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