Holding The Past Against People? In life ive learned that a lot of times we hold the past against people. We may forgive them for what theyve done or said but we still hold that negative circumstance or moment they expressed against us. Someone could have negative habits, reject you out of fear, abuse you in a variety of ways or do anything that you label negative or not supportive in your life... and people will carry your past negative habits into your future for you without your permission (if you let them, not to say you have a control of someones perception of you but to some degree you do) even though youve improved in that area. You or someone you know may be holding an image in time of you that is not clear in this current moment simply because it happend once upon a time. Life changes by the day, month and year, as time goes on the story of our lives change and that is how and why we change with it. Change is consistent, people do change because life itself is an ever-changing natural flowing experience. In fact, you cannot not change... its part of the cycle of life. So today if youre holding the past against someone, see them with a clean slate... and if someone is holding the past against you? address them and let them know that the person who you once were is not the person who you now are, because people live up to the expectations and visions that are held for them, so its important to not allow people to project your past into your future, without your permission. These people may be subconsciously tearing you down each time you talk to them... they are supportive but only conditionally speaking. Start that conversation. You have the power to perceive, and you have the power to percept the way you see every person in your life. What you can do is do your best to see the best spotlight in others over time, envision the best in people, not the worst, theyll live up to that best :)
Posted on: Thu, 18 Sep 2014 22:43:32 +0000
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