I want to be confident So you tried everything... you set goals and worked hard until you achieved them You developed new skills and mastered them You read tons of articles, books and applied them but you still dont feel self confident I know you have done a great job and that you did big effort but you forgot the most important thing along the way, convincing yourself that you are worthy even if some people believe otherwise. Why you are not confident Lots of people spend great effort settings goals and achieving them in order to do one thing, gain social acceptance and make others believe that they are worthy. While in fact, the only thing that can help a person become self confident is convincing himself that he is worthy and not convincing others simply because: We filter information: IF you believed that you are not worthy then you will filter all inputs that doesnt match your beliefs, for example you would give no weight to a compliment or even claim that the person who said it was just being nice We get what we focus on: Not only you will filter information that doesnt match your beliefs but you will also collect the ones that matches your beliefs, if you believed that you are worthless then you will only remember the bad treatment you got and the people who ignored or disrespected you !! The subconscious mind needs to believe: You can never become self confident before your subconscious mind believes that you are really worthy else you will always feel worthless without understanding why
Posted on: Thu, 08 May 2014 05:05:33 +0000
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