I will never step foot in Chinese Kitchen again. I worked there back in the 80s as a kid. One of the ladies still works there. I went there for lunch one day many years ago and that lady said to me right in front of everyone what happened to you, you look like two people now. I was so angry I just bit my tongue and walked off. It took a long time for me to go back. Over the years I have gone back maybe once a year and she has never brought up my weight again...until today. As I was driving to the restaurant I was telling my niece what she said so many years ago and how it upset me and I hoped she didnt say anything today. I wasnt so lucky. She recognizes me and says hello and left it at that. I thought I was home free. I went to show her a photo of my new granddaughter and she proceeds to go on and on about how big I am. She says you got smaller and now you have blown up again. I was just floored at her lack of consideration. I said thank you so much for pointing that out. I was humiliated. For those of you who have never struggled with weight let me give you a piece of advice from a fat girl: WE KNOW WE ARE FAT! We dont need you to tell us. I look at myself in the mirror everyday. You dont know the struggles I have had with losing weight and how I dread to even go out in public because of people like her. If I thought she was telling me these things because she was concerned with my health then I might could overlook her total lack of class but I really think she took too much delight in my public humiliation. Oh, and the food was crap!
Posted on: Thu, 11 Sep 2014 00:03:52 +0000
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