Im so proud of my husband! I had so much stuff piled up in my head over the past 5 almost 6 years we have been together and tonight I laid it all out there on the table! I told him I refuse to live one more day the way we are living! But I actually talked to him and explained myself and I honestly thought this would be it us making the decision to divorce! But to my surprise he actually listened and shared with me his feelings and stuff he needed to say that he thought I would not listen to and I realized a lot of our fighting and frustration was simply that we didnt talk to each other and tell each other what was really on our minds! Turns out we both have the same wants and needs and our ultimate goals are pretty much the same and the love and care we are both missing was simply fear of rejection of one another! I am so relived and just amazed that a week ago I was sure I wanted a divorce and now Im learning I was part of the reason I wasnt getting what I wanted out of my marriage when they say you have to work to keep your marriage healthy its true in the fact that you have to be honest with not only your partner but yourself! Playing the blame game is easy fixing the problem is hard but well worth the effort if what you have is truly love! And i know my love for the man I married is real and I want to continue spending the rest of my life Making it better everyday!!!
Posted on: Tue, 01 Jul 2014 03:49:51 +0000
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