Its funny... my mom is visiting and asks me where I am in life. It struck me that maybe I have not shared my learning curve with friends that truly care and wonder or worry. I do tend to keep to myself.... but I have learned so much already and am still learning. I post this as an update... I post this as a learning lesson that all could possibly gain from... 1-reality is not what we expect or plan even after 20 years but there is still time to make it right. 2- be okay with yourself and forget how that part of you was not nourished but you can do it yourself. 3- talk to people that have been or are in your shoes...learn from their wisdom. That is KEY 4- Nobody but yourself is the person you need to be-at peace with it and nourish yourself. 5- learn from your mistakes and own them. 6- never let the kids see negativity. Its not their issue. 7- look around you. You are not alone. 8- set boundaries and stick to them otherwise you repeat the same pattern. 9- divorce is not an answer. It is usually (there exceptions) escapism. The grass is not greener. Give it your all. You dedicated to it.,,do it. If the other is not on same page you cant control that and move on. 10- take on your new life. Own it. Be honest. Be real :-) Mostly be you. I am search for peace. I look for wisdom. Those that helped me in the dark days I will be forever grateful. Peace to you all. Look to yourself to find what you are looking for. Much love :-) Jenn
Posted on: Sat, 18 Oct 2014 07:36:50 +0000
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