Ive been into a relationship for 2 years already, and the following are just based on my experiences. So here are the tips I promised from my last status. 20 lang sa:) 1. Say your I love yous before going to sleep. Bisag mag-away, ingon ghapun. Honestly, it helps jd kayu. 2. Dont be too possessive. A big no no. Allow your partner to socialize with other people. Its part of life. So dont be too OA if naay ka chat or ka talk imung uyab sa school. Its normal. Communication is essential in school, at work and everywhere. UNLESS, if naa njuy something bad or nagflirt2 nas lain, aw mao di nana maayo. 3. Courteousness applies to a relationship as well :) its good to start each day with good mornings and end your day with good nights. Be consistent jd. 4. Being not sweet is so UNCOOL. What i meant is, its not really nice nga sweet ramo from the start ra and a few months later or few years later kay mura nlng ug friends ang treatment towards each other. Dapat, magkaanam magkadugay, dli magkabitter. 5. No labelling of names. Haha yet, this is so inevitable especially when we get mad but as much as possible try to avoid it. 6. If there are misunderstandings and cold fights, if init pagae ang ulo, ayaw nlng jd ug text or call nga makasamot. Give them TOLERANCE sa ikang gibati. Mahuwasan rana a few hours. Hahahaha P.S. : I always do this. Hahahahah dba bok? 7. If maamong kas kasapot, THATS completely normal. Ride nlng gd para di musamot. Hahahaha (in our case, ako ang saputon hahahaha.) 8. Know the difference between: >>> friends together with us time >>> my friends and i time >>> your friends and you time >>> the only us time >>> my time 9. Do your labing2 thing but in the appropriate places. Dont do your labing2 when your friends are there or even in public places like in school. Feels so good BUT, makadiminish pud na sa inyung socialization. Remember to balance everything and remember number 8 :))) Another reason too, is to protect the reputation of your relationship. 10. For PEOPLE WITH JOBS, the guy MUST spend for their dates and not the opposite. For STUDENTS, i recommend to share and combine your money altogether. Were students. We dont have work. If things are done this way, mas dghan mug opportunities to spend time together like watching a movie, going out on a dinner date, going out for coffees in café. Kaysa laki, imung pagustuon. Theyre not young sugar daddies who gets money from their parents and spend it for their girlfriends. So not cool. (Weve been practicing this for 2 yrs. I opened my boyf about it coz i dont want him to spend money for me which he basically didnt earn. ) 11. Surprises arent for the girls only. Boys wanted to have that feeling as well. Pa OA lang na sila nga di kunuhay sila kiligon. Hahaha 12. Show him/her that you care. Dont miss a single day without communicating. It sucks. 13. Dont ever everrrrr forget to COMPLiMENT even for the simplest acts that he/she greatly did. 14 Dont sleep yet without fixing a fight. Its not good to leave it hanging. Musamot ang away if wala na fix dayun. This is so important. 15. Always start your morning anew. Whether you may have had a bad mood last night or not, change it to an optimistic one. 16. FEAR one another. In laymans term, Pagkat,un mug KAIKOG. :)) always think first before doing something. Sometimes, in the middle of deciding something, try to visualize and put yourself in the shoes of your partner. Think sa iyang ma feel. If ikaw kay siya, how would you feel and etc, 17. Bring out the child in you. This one seems OA, but once you experienced this, you wouldnt want to let go of it. Ka nindot ra anang i-baby ka. Dli ratawn girls ang in,anaun, asta ang boys. Pero do it in the appropriate places ONLY. Kay luod jud if naay makakita lain. Hahaha 18. Set up limitations and respect each other in a holistic manner. 19.Be each others inspiration in achieving your goals and dreams. If imung uyab, maoy nagpahimo nmug dautan like di naka musud sa class, or whatever, BUWAGI NA. Both of you will either end up in two situations.: First is magbuwag ra mo madugay. Second, if magkadayun, mo maglisud mung duha then magkaaway2 mo and magkabuwag dayun mo. Help each other juuud :) 20.Be open jud sa parents on both sides. Sounds impossible and hard right? Yeah hard jd to obtain for some. But this way mn gd, we have our parents who guide us what to do and what not to do. Helpful pd sila especially if naa tay problems about everything. ( i personally like this, kay at least, if naay sayup imung uyab, macorrected cya sa iyang parents. Alams na, sometimes, di ma minaw natu. At least, they are people whom he/she is willing to listen to)
Posted on: Fri, 11 Jul 2014 00:49:33 +0000
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