My girls are bringing powerful messages home today! When you try to control someone so that you can feel safe and loved, you arent safe and you arent being loved. Because to control someone is to take charge of your life AND theirs. Thats not your place. Its not your responsibility. And its too big a burden for one person to handle the integrity of two people. Youre trading true safety -- which comes from trusting someone who is trustworthy, for the illusion of safety -- which comes from controlling someone because you dont trust. Control is a limited agreement. A fleeting moment. A time-bomb. Something that is going to run its course for only as long as you have the energy and strength to do it. Controlling someone takes a LOT of energy. And you will run out. And that will be a gift to you, to get to the end of your rope and face the fact that either: You dont trust because you have issues -- or you have someone in your life who isnt trustworthy -- and you have issues. Because either scenario means youve got something to work on. To not trust -- means you need to heal. And to be with someone not trustworthy -- means you need to heal. The journey isnt about controlling. Its about healing. Its time to get clear that you dont feel safe. And you dont trust. Because when you are honest about it, the controlling bits start to go away, and the healing starts to come in. Be honest with yourself about where you are and let the Divine in you, lead you beside healing waters where you can rest in the trust of Great Love. You are here to heal. And that is a very loving journey to be on when youre surrendered and not controlling. This is the beginning of your new life to feel safe and truly loved. Love someone today and let it be you. -- Stacey Robbins staceyrobbins
Posted on: Fri, 30 May 2014 18:10:36 +0000
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