NO MAN WANTS A LAIBILITY AS A WIFE. The rate of unmarried - TopicsExpress



          

NO MAN WANTS A LAIBILITY AS A WIFE. The rate of unmarried ladies is increasing allday,Some might think its bcus there are no Men dew to marry yet,but i dont think soo.I dont believe that there is anything like scar city of men. From my own personal knowledge there is one out of many of the reasons that cought my atte- tion.Our Ladies are beautiful,Smart,Learnered and Few industruios,(INDUSTRIOUS).Many of my senior friends are dew to marry now the guys are all made and good to go but something keeps drawing them back and i looked deeper to see if i can figure out Y,yes some are confused but many knows what they want. 70% of our Ladies are not seeing the hand writing on the wall or they are seeing but they r not reading maybe they are reading thou but the understanding ability is not there. see sisters days are gone when Men just need a house wife nah nah nobody wants that,Me your bro,ur uncle,ur cousin or ur friends ask them guys No one needs a liability. Yes the bible says women are meant to be a helping hand but why are some of you seeing the help as just getting pregnant,giving birth and taking care of the baby,Cooking and all sort helllll Yeaaaa!!!Thats a hell of job but its not the help dear,Funny enough if u dont agree to take in he wont have a kid neither will you. if you dont cook he wont eat neither will you, If you dont take care of your baby if the kid dies you get heart attark before him.Why u dey deceive ur self? Real men dont hide what they do to make money this days to the lady they wanna get married to. If he push barrow for a living he will tell,he is telling you not to join him and push the God damn barrow he told you so u can get your hands dirty and work too to make him and the family u two will build together.If he is a working class guy and you think you can come and sit your ass down and take care of the kids and household job allday its not gonna work if he does that when you guys just got married and he is worth 1m by the time u guys stays 2 years its only the Grace of God that can still keep him operating just around that 1m level,but everyone wanna grow nobody wants stagnancy. Women are blessing to men or good luck to men aint the type that sit her ass at home and wait for Oga to come home and bring money for salt,then gossip and ask around how many women Oga spoke with or had a hand shake with while at work or business area. I know of a well known foreign Leadership Teacher and Preacher of the Word of God too,,who is soo wealthy as a matter of facts he owns a private Jet.No one told me i was present in one of his Teachings in ABJ not quite long ago,not withstanding his wealth his wife has bills she takes care of in the family,what do that tell you?NOTE!they didt just get there they actually started from scratch and today there last born is a millionaire,it means as he is working hard out there the wife is also working hard too she aint sitting down waiting for Oga to come home and bring money for Bar soap. Do you know what sitting at home waiting for Oga to come will do to you?It will cover your potentials . Youv got something to offer to the world sitting at home or gossiping from one place to another wont let you shine.If he is your boyfriend or Fiance now and he says he is gonna keep you at home Scream I REJECT IT IJN.Yes he will say i will buy the head of Obama for you and make White house your kitchen trust me that promises can only last for awhile and when the time comes and he starts complaining of any little thing dont think its the girl working in his office that is turning him against you or ur mother-in-law,. No they are not its just that,that sofa you always lay on and watch movies are getting old and he will still be the one to change it and yet buy ur underse. A day is coming when he will either by play or seriou- ness tell you Is Joyce Mayers no be woman like you? if you are not smart u will think its a joke,its not he means you are useless to him. If you asks for Kpof now and he buys kpof-kpof,or Moi he buys Moi-Moi,everything you asks he doubls you better eat as you can now when he wanna get married you know who he will go looking for,that mgbeke that finished her NYSC and job aint coming she switched into hand craft work or any trade of her choice doing it and hoping on God to give her a better Job not you that wants to become a laibility forever.Some will even sit home and Pray its not done by that alone you ass need to be under the sun/rain here is Africa girl look around you its not snowing here its a harsh sun and atimes unfriendly rain falls,if its snowing here i would have said you are mistaking it to be Manna but its not so whats covering your eyes cant you see?..... The Praying is the seed you have. if seeds dont hit the ground it can bear no fruit So when you are done declearing what you wanna see you cant be home and see it you go out there and see it.If something is happening ahead of the cr- owed and you ask someone to make a space for you to see it if the person does and your eyes are closed you wont see nothing still.All those housewives you used to know has their ass out there working hard now some into trade and some pusuing one work or the other go and ask them na wETTIN?They will first tell you the amount of disgrace and insult they started collecting from their hubby after 3yrs of marr- iage and how humiliating it was when a fellow woman she knew back in the school days bought her self a Range geep while her Golf 3 is at home and the reason is bcos the hubby says he is tired of giving her money to fuel it. MeeN...!No one is perfect we all just trying to TRY,Men theres nothing like she cant do,Many of them can but they just need a push and thats why you are there find out what she has passion for and help her achieve her dreams.Stop telling a girl i will do heaven and earth for you when i marry you when you know you are not just lying to her you are also lying to yourself. A Lovely and happy family starts now from this level you two are operating,Girl if you look at him and he is not doing noting push him to if he still cant run fast as you can,Same goes to you my guy if she is the type of 20naira wait my husband is coming home soon try working on her if she is not responding to treatment ,,,VOOMM is much better than STATEMENT. Thank God am not educated yet am not writing from what i learnt from a lecture hall i write from what av seen and witnessed you can take it or leave it its your choice.We all are entitled to our own opinion and choice.PEACE&GOD BLESS. ~~#BFRANKY
Posted on: Wed, 27 Nov 2013 18:47:10 +0000

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