“Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand. If you are her man, she will talk to you until there just aren’t any more words left to say, encourage you when you’re at rock bottom and think there just isn’t any way out, hold you in her arms when you’re sick, and laugh with you when you’re up. And if you’re her man and that woman loves you—I mean really loves you?—she will shine you up when you’re dusty, encourage you when you’re down, defend you even when she’s not so sure you were right, and hang on your every word, even when you’re not saying anything worth listening to. And no matter what you do, no matter how many times her friends say you’re no good, no matter how many times you slam the door on the relationship, she will give you her very best and then some, and keep right on trying to win over your heart, even when you act like everything she’s done to convince you she’s The One just isn’t good enough. That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. ” “All Im telling you to do is to be smart about it. Know that if this man isnt looking for a serious relationship, youre not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate. You could be the most perfect woman on the Lords green earth-youre capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, youre independent (which means, to him, that youre not going to be in his pockets)-but if hes not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.” “Im here to tell you, though, ladies that the term gold digger is one of the traps we men set to keep you off our money trail; we created that term for you so that we can have all our money and still get everything we want from you without you asking for or expecting this very basic, instincual responsibility that men all over the world are obligated to assume and embrace. ... KNOW THIS: It is your right to expect that a man will pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or whatever else he has to pay for in exhange for your time.” If he hasnt lined up the who he is, the what he does, and the how much he makes in the way that he sees fit, he cant possibly be to you what he wants to be. ” Dont be afraid to lose him, because if a man truly loves you, hes not going anywhere” Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man Steve Harvey.
Posted on: Fri, 21 Mar 2014 07:53:36 +0000
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