PLEASE READ This is from Jennifer Marx- It took me a really long time to figure out that I didnt have to make the best of this or keep trying to fix this in my old life. I knew that I didnt cause it and that it wasnt about me at all. BUT, I thought I had to continue to try to be kind, helpful, and agreeable in order to make it better. I am grateful I was finally released from what was worse than prison and was like the murder of my spirit. People often try to help others relat...ionships with advice, but what so many people miss is calling these behaviors Abuse. When there is abuse, there is no relationship. You cannot apply rational thought to an irrational person. You cannot reason with someone who is so blinded by his own distortion of reality, that he truly believes you really are deserving of his degradation, humiliation, blame, cursing, manipulation and control over you, and that he is not even doing anything wrong & will even call it love. You cannot help a couple get along better, when one person is doing these things to the other. Because that person is choosing to kill part of his partner a little bit at a time. Like a frog in boiling water analogy, there are 2 outcomes - Slow Death or Jump Out! If this behavior prevails in your relationship, there IS an alternative. This is from Sydney Seay – My lifetime experience is that many emotional abusers live two lives, one at home, and the other is public. This goes for Christians and non-Christians. Never assume you really know what is going on in a marriage, what is on the outside in public often can be opposite of what happens at home. One of the most profound sayings before I started my journey to wellness…. No one can disrespect you unless you let them. That and I cannot change the other person, I can only change myself. It’s my prayer that I and anyone else out there that has been through this abuse to get help to journey into a healthy life. My goal is to have a voice and to never again to allow myself to be abused. My greatest prayer is to be able to help others.
Posted on: Fri, 05 Sep 2014 06:39:15 +0000
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