Parenting .. And the challenges of the times Praise be to Allah and peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon his family and companions. Children are the modern day and talk every day .. Rather, they are a modern human and place of interest since created by God in this life, hoping صلاحهم and calls on God to bring him in them what he wants ((he who created you from a single soul and creating them her husband to live to what Tgchaha carried the load light passes him when he weighed called Allah their Lord While Atina valid نكونن from thankful) Surat customs verse 189 Whenever amounted to human measure of maturity realize the value of blessing his sons and asked God reformation ((.. even if it reaches its peak reached forty years, said Lord أوزعني to thank the grace which bestowed on her and my dad and I do a good ترضاه and fix me in Dhiriti I decide to you and I from Muslims)) Surat Ahqaf verse 15. Their eyes recognize their parents and adorned life ((Lord Bestow on us from our wives and ذرياتنا joy and make us righteous imam)) Al-Furqan verse 74 In contrast, there is a picture alarming pattern of children, is abusive to parents, and narrows guidance, and denies preferred parents, and deny the values of religion and faith ((and who said to his parents beam of as Otaadanni to go out was deserted centuries before me two Istgithan God and Lilac secure the promise of Allah is true and says what This is nothing but tales of the ancients)) Surat Ahqaf verse 17. However this effect for the children on the happiness of parents or siblings, life more complicated, and the more tailored human steps on the ladder of material life, the greater the burden of parents in the education of their children, because they are the source of real wealth for the individual and the group, Money drained and material wealth increases and decreases are real wealth Nations that depend on them, but they are the wealth that remains for parents after their death, it is between what works and parents after their death Doaa good boy also told the Prophet, peace be upon him. There is no doubt that a great responsibility on parents and especially since the educational role of the family no longer has a strong influence on their children, which can be described as weak or what might be called a failure, the educational role of the family in general. The lack of the educational role of the family may make them face in this day and age many challenges, and those challenges as follows: = Predominance of the physical character on the thinking of the children, Vmtalibhm material is endless and can not find those parents that state of satisfaction that was the parents themselves are in the same age groups for their children, Valmttlebatt physical despite plentiful in their hands, however, we find that they do not تسعدهم, but their eyes on what is not They have If أدركوه looked at the other and so on!! = Control children on parents and contrary to what should be the case, he studied psychologist "Edward Witten" the phenomenon of parents in America and decided that we live in an era ruled by children, rather than to draw parents their children, the children are the ones who direct the behavior of their parents They are opting for home, and point out important holiday, and if they entered a shop before every child to like, and the father, but that opens the portfolio and pay Adnan GMT, for our children, Third Edition - Foundation message - Beirut - 1404 p 70. = Lazing spirit and unwillingness to read and the low level of scientific research for many of the children in the families. = So-called clash of generations and is intended to widening gap between the thinking of the children and parents thinking, and the reluctance of children often take advantage of the expertise of the older generation as they look to their experiences as no longer of value in this day and age in which we live. = What is known as the intellectual and cultural invasion goal watched the children and listen to it through the media of different ideas and values may not be often consistent with the values of our societies. These are some of the challenges facing the family and have a negative impact on its role of education required. If we have identified examples of what challenges we have only to prophets how families can overcome those negatives, or at least how to reduce them. First / for the predominance of the physical character on the children, no one denies that this phenomenon but are a feature of this era, the physical progress stems immense and quickly matched by a commitment to human values. Thus the family is responsible for the strengthen this materialistic thinking of the children, because the parents themselves are keen on the physical aspect. Do not deny the importance of the material in human life, but we must balance lateral, Article must be a standard measure by what our human values and principles of ethics, and our religion teaches us, it has been linked to verses of the Quran between the lateral bond homogeneous agreeably, as evidenced by The news completes debt has come part of the verse statement taboo in the food and drink, he says: ((forbidden you dead meat, blood and pork and the people to God it and المنخنقة and الموقوذة and deteriorating and النطيحة and eat seven, but what Zkeetm and slaughtered on the memorial and Tstksmoa بالأزلام ye debauchery Today despaired who disbelieve your religion do not Tkhcohm and the Akhcon Today I have perfected your religion for you and completed My favor upon you and chosen for you Islam as a religion, it is forced in Mkhmsh not Mtgianf to sin, Allah is Forgiving, Merciful)) Surah verse 3 Indeed, the Koran was considered Let the fatherless, and not to incite the poor on food considered denial of religion, said the Almighty says: ((Do you see who is lying to religion. That leaves orphan. Nor incites food poor)) Surat small kindnesses verse of 1 - 3.
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