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Since my inbox is full of questions, accusations and people telling me that people are talking about me behind my back. I AM ADDRESSING THIS ONCE AND ONCE ONLY, I HAVE CHANGED NAMES TO KEEP PEOPLE FROM GETTING BUTT HURT AND I DARE ANYONE TO SAY THIS ISNT HOW IT WENT DOWN BECAUSE I HAVE NO PROBLEM PROVING IT. I HAVE SIGNED NOTHING, I HAVE SUBMITTED NOTHING... JUST THROWING THAT OUT THERE. When I first started this pin Up journey, I started for a few reasons it looked fun and loved the idea of modeling as a hobby. I also loved the idea to be able to help volunteer in a few areas with help going towards our troops and veterans.Finally if by some slim chance this whole modeling thing took off, well that would be awesome too. I started in a local group of great gals, they hadnt been established long but they were trying to make a name for themselves as well as help out a charitable organizations, if possible. I missed their one and only fundraiser and that did okay.The leader of the group was able to get the group accepted by another more popular pin up group (on a national level) that holds a 501c status,and the group became their Alabama chapter. The only thing we were told was that the only thing the non profit ask of us was to submit pictures before we publish them with their non profit name attached for approval. fair enough. Once the Alabama chapter was formed they were given a page (both private and fan) that was governed by the head of the non profit on the national level.Unfortunately after joining, We were inundated with rules, regulations and so forth. I took us about a month to even get copies of these as well as have our first meeting to go over it. The was so many unanswered questions and talk of non compete forms, etc. I have multiple friends on Facebook and I try and share multiple pages from people .I am thankful to have so many friends, fans, etc. One of my friends was helping a magazine collect donations for care boxes to be shipped to troops.I gladly volunteered to do this. I really didnt see the harm. That is when hell broke lose and apparently I was then breaking a cardinal rule. Apparently the non profit we joined frowned on us helping other nonprofit groups that are pin up with care boxes. (EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE ACTUALLY HELPING THE MAGAZINE) and of course the leader of our local chapter quickly separated me from the group, saying that I was acting alone,when actually other girls were helping too. (what is sad is people messaged me and blew up my phone about all of the things she has said) Despite all of this the lady and the magazine never spoke ill of the non profit i was actually in. Unfortunately I cant say the same for the nonprofit i was a member of. Apparently it got back to the people I was helping collect for and the lady who runs the other non profit that was also helping the magazine too. Also it didnt help that the leader of the non profit I was in was bad mouthing the on her personal Facebook page either. A letter was sent to the non profit i was a member from the other one telling her to keep her name and organization out of her mouth. again fair enough. I know if I had someone talking crap about me I would have done the same thing. The final straw was having to watch the feed on our private page blow up about the other group, the name calling and telling any girl that knows or associates with them needs to leave, so I DID. I will not have people dictate who my friends are. I will not have people dictate who I help. Also when I tried to show my chapter head the actual page, she basically posted it and a long speech expressing everything we talked about. After telling me to drop it. I wish all of the gals in my old group the best I really hope yall do great things, I hope you are able to help lots of veterans. REALLY I DO!! I dont know what the harm in everyone helping everyone out, i mean come on it is about helping others not being pissy and juvenile. SO I WILL BE FRIENDS WITH KATI AND I WILL BE FRIENDS WITH LINDY LUCK AND OTHER HFCB (IF THEY WISH) AND I WILL HELP OTHERS AS I CHOOSE. If this offends you, WELL there is a button that says we are friends kindly remove yourself. On a personal not: 1.I will not Skype for money, unlike others 2. I spend a lot of money on clothes, props etc, so yes I want my pictures published. 3. I will not play my photographers against each other. 4. I will not play my friends against each other 5. If i have a problem with you i will tell you and i expect the same courtesy. 6. I will not meet people out of town for um photo shoots especially if i have obligated myself to do something else with friends. 7. I will not go behind my friends back for personal gain. 8. If I am in a magazine I will actually buy my own copy to support them. I will not have my picture taken with someone elses copy to try to pretend I bought my own copy and post it. 9. Also I wont try and use a friends connections to better myself. 10. I will share you and help you grow in any way, I just want the same courtesy. **Also if youre going to talk crap behind my back at least do it with people who dont know me and that arent going to send it to me, cause damn I am really tired of reading it. I mean I appreciate you thinking of me and all but really carry on with your life and the whole victim thing kinda gets old, js *** So there that is it, the whole story and all.
Posted on: Wed, 09 Jul 2014 14:22:54 +0000

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