Some people are like a dog that chases cars; if they caught up - TopicsExpress



          

Some people are like a dog that chases cars; if they caught up with the car they couldn’t drive it. You have to understand that there are people out here that enjoy the chase more than being in a committed relationship. They can be in a relationship/married, and still think about the ones that got away more than the one they are with. If by chance you could get one of them to marry you, they will cheat. Not because they love you any less, but it’s the thrill of the chase. The drama it cause almost makes them happy, because its all about you cares more. They rather you talk junk to them, or mistreat them because that represents a challenge which they love. They may call you all day just for you to brush them off, they love it and will still keep calling. Please know it will take a few conversations to locate this type of character, because its a relationship. They may even say that you are someone they want to marry just to keep you around, but once you start giving in; they start to distance their self from you. The calls are less, and the conversation is short, and vague, but once the one they are chasing starts pulling away the phone calls will pick back up until they find another one to chase. You are home base in their mind. People like this are just wired differently from most people, they enjoy the chase and the very thought of commitment scares them to death because they dont know how to love just one person. The sad thing is because they are very attractive people, secured in their careers, and has everything a person would look for in a mate some men/women will go to great lengths to try and make them happy. Learn to stop, look and listen when you meet someone new. They will usually tell you in the first 45 days who they are. Listen for things like, “My last girlfriend/wife was crazy, or my last boyfriend/husband was too jealous.” In most cases they are that way because they droved them to it with their behavior. They can call you all day, but if you call them it seems to bother them, because they are thinking or planning to do something with someone else - a new car to chase. They are very selfish people even to their children. They feel like you should understand when they make a mistake, but will put any and all of you faults on blast. And, when you call their behavior into question, they will tell you I have been honest, because they cant figure out why you didnt see the signs. You have to know that you are there for their pleasure not yours, because you belong to them until they can figure out what to do with you. If they chase you with flowers/cards, phone calls, and dates then once you start showing you care they will stand there and look at you just like a dog does when the car finally stops. They just walk away and wait for another car to pass by so they can chase it.
Posted on: Fri, 05 Sep 2014 01:47:43 +0000

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