The reasons not to get involved with a married man are numerous - its a really bad idea and something that no sensible woman should ever do. It will only lead to heartbreak and can devastate not just your own life, but that of his family as well. Getting involved with a married man has huge potential to hurt everyone involved. So here are some sound reasons not to date a married man. 1. WRONG Of all the reasons not to get involved with a married man, the primary one has to be this: its just plain wrong. Both a married man and his girlfriend can come up with all sorts of reasons to justify what theyre doing - its real love, his wife doesnt treat him right, etc. Those are excuses - cheating is never right, and a decent person just wouldnt be part of it. . WOULD YOU LIKE IT? There is one question you should always ask yourself if you become interested in a married man: how would you like to be the one who is cheated on? You may justify your own behavior by arguing that you are not married, he is. Thats still not right. You wouldnt like it if another woman went after your partner, so dont do it to anyone else. REPEAT PERFORMANCE There is a saying: if you marry the mistress, you create a vacancy. Men who cheat can never be trusted. If you do manage to bag your man, and he leaves his wife for you, how can you ever be sure he wont do the same to you? The fact is, you cant. So dont put yourself in that situation, or it could be you getting hurt next time. CHILDREN As well as abstract reasons, there are living reasons not to get involved with a married man. If he has children, your involvement in his life could be incredibly damaging to them. Dont be a part of messing up childrens lives; stay well away. Besides, can you respect a man who puts his own selfish needs before that of the children he brought into the world? There are so many reasons not to get involved with a married man and nothing that can be said in favor of it, and any man who can treat his wife and family like that, for any reason is really not worth having. Dont fool yourself into believing his lies or make excuses for either of you. Value yourself highly enough to want someone better.
Posted on: Thu, 28 Nov 2013 04:38:07 +0000
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