True happiness comes from a connection to your inner being. Unfortunately some think it comes from an outside source. A kind of condition response as to not be able to accept responsibility for our own happiness. Its an easy excuse when things are bad just to avoid the situation and say, Thats not my fault Whether it is or it isnt doesnt matter, because thats not the issue. With this in mind, lets talk about relationships. If your putting your happiness into another person hands, what happens if something happens to that person, a departure of some kind? Look its natural to be heartbroken when you lose someone or something you love. One of the hardest thing I had to do is when hurricane Ike hit, was to go down to Galveston for crisis counseling. All these peoples material possessions gone. The only thought I could offer after hearing each individual tragic story of loss was to say, I am sorry for your loss. You have those memories in which no one can take away. Thats the key in knowing that no matter what happens, its how you choose to remember and or believe. That is something only you can do for yourself. Thereby, understanding your happiness cannot come from the outside world. It must come from within you. Know this and you will no longer be controlled by your ego. Life is not a fairytale. You will have bad days of feeling overwhelmed and thats alright, its normal part of life. Your are just fine and a special person. Know that the people and things in your life hold no power over you. You are the controller of your thoughts. With that there is happiness in everything you do. Because being happy is just how you see it Doc B
Posted on: Sat, 08 Nov 2014 14:35:04 +0000
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