When I was a child my parents taught me not to look where I wasnt supposed to. If a person doesnt want to reveal a part of something, then to look there is wrong. Have some respect for their privacy. If you try to peek behind the curtains of your partners privacy, you wont get any closer to them themba mna. The respect that we have for another persons privacy, however that person has chosen to define it, enables us to nurture an intimate relationship. As soon as we trespass where we havent been invited, we destroy the boundaries and dissipate the intimacy. In such an environment, our relationships cannot flourish. They will never flourish mtshana. Many relationships break up not because anyone is doing anything wrong, no one is sinning, no one is cruel, no one is mean, but simply due to unfair expectations. Having unfair expectations means failing to recognize and respect another persons borders. If you feel theres a need to kraap your partners phone and dig stuff, why are you still with them? Thats an ugly argument, you dont need to answer that.
Posted on: Thu, 03 Jul 2014 07:42:12 +0000
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