Wives...... There is a huge difference between knowingsomeone and understanding the person. *you may know me and not understand my kind of person * and truth is, Yes you will likely know all your Inlaws but you will never understand them all. I understand that some people could be quite difficult to understand, especially Inlaws but then, you must understand that your Inlaws are a part of you that you cant possibly do away with. So try your best to build a cordial relationship with them, just so that they will have your back when the need arises. Yes, some Mothers Inlaw could be really fraustrating, annoying and impossible to please BUT you have to always remind yourself that she is the one who gave birth to the love of your life, your Husband and Crown of womanhood. For peace and love to reign, see her as your own biological mother, then embrace her and try to forgive all her flaws. . . . .realise that before you came into the picture, she is used to having all the love, affection and attention of your man. Still allow her quality time with him, dont let her percieve you as one who has come to steal her sons undivided attention from her, rather, make her see you as an added Blessing to the family, a daughter who has come to not only assist in extending the family line but also, one who has come to accept her as your own mother. Just so you know, if you are able to build a beautiful bond with your Mother Inlaw, your husband will be very happy with you. Do me a favor, stop seeing your Mother Inlaw as a competition, if you dont you will surely lose your Home in the long run. The worst mistake you can make, is ask your man to chose between you and his mother. Dont you ever make the mistake of giving such an ultimatum, you just might be shocked at the turn of events. Stop deceiving yourself with this quote that A man shall leave his mother and father and cling unto his wife.....how on earth is that possible? Do you think its possible for him to uncling from a woman who sat and watched his infant head? Do you think its easy and possible to uncling from hisfirst love and girlfriendwho nurtured him from birth? Its not that easy my dear... ... ... ...He can only leave his Father and Mothers house to marry you and start his own Family BUT its certainly impossible for him to leave their heart and break the bond theyve built over the years! Just as you cant possibly neglect your family simply because you are married to him! Use your head dearies, see and accept your Inlaws as your own biological family (especially your mother Inlaw) accord them their due respect but do not turn yourself into their slave. There is a huge difference between being Respectful and being Gullible....spot the difference, wisely chose your battles and enjoy your marriage! Bear in mind that you will someday be a mother Inlaw too, so treat your mother Inlaw, the exact way youd love for your daughter Inlaw to treat you.
Posted on: Wed, 02 Jul 2014 21:07:57 +0000
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