Yazi, I have discovered as a student pastor(counsellor) that why we Christians dont forgive. Ewe forgiveness. I dont know if its just what is in me or the verse, that says.... When yu forgive yu yu dont hold grudges,meaning, if you did something wrong to me and you come back to apologise,if I say I forgive you yet I dont give what I used o should give you does that mean ndikuxolele.....? Guys can you Xplain this thing of forgiveness. Please.... E.g(ASSUME) In my church, one of my children (brethren) has committed sin (any kind), then she/he gets the reward of committing that sin....now she o he regrets him/herself before God(even th ough he/she doesnt say it out ngomlomo) and bfo others. Finding her/him trying to come back to the position, Here comes the problem other brethrens doesnt give support with LOVE...... And I have discovered that,that particular person is given another punishment by the church.... E.g Assume I sinned, I fell pregnant (NOTE :I knew the consequences but to be honest when yu sin its not like we dont know the results).now I am preg,my parents deserted me,I am scared to go to attend the services (church),Bcoz am embarrassed.... I cant go to school Bcoz am embarrassed. 1. Who will understand my situation If my parents has done like this....? 2. Where can I go to if the house of the loving father, His children are deserting me,yet they gossip about me...?. 3. Must I go back to my boyfriend (even though it was just lust in me)....to recv that so called love??? I need your opinion guys on this..... If we are forgiving,what then do this person has to do if??? 1. Uyamsika then what after the punishment she got ??... 2. If a person got pregnant in your church what do you do or what can you do as the shepherd??? Yu can change my embicile thoughts coz am not perfect either.... But Christ in me and you is Just your opinion only can make me wise guys.... Help just say it any how am listening..... Your friend ever SS DLANJWA....
Posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 14:46:39 +0000
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