You want a partner in life who is capable but just not capable of doing better than you. Its funny how you want your significant other to understand your position in your career but the one person that can understand it you turn into your competition. This person is the person that you should be with because you are compatible meaning if you are interested then give that person a shot... I have come to see that a lot of people in the industry do not want someone in their field because everyone knows you and you dont want to be seen how everyone sees you in your significant others eyes, you want to be different, you want to be special but you also deny yourself to be with someone who not only knows you but respects your position and can understand why your gone so many hours and why your phone stays ringing. The world is not as traditional as it used to be but sadly the open views that we use to share as a people are more closed minded. Why is it that we feel that we need a phone or social media to express how we feel? I remember a time before cell phones or internet and if we wanted a person THEY KNEW IT we went after them we worked for it we built success together. Now you just want people to sit in your shadow and support you from the sidelines because you dont want anyone knowing what you have and how great it really is at home. and if people do know sadly it might just be a show. What we see in relationships isnt real any more and people are ashamed and afraid to be real because they didnt go for their heart they went with what was convenient for them. and they know that what they have can be taken away from them at any time because they dont have that strong foundation that old traditional relationships are built on.... Relationships are more than a faction they are divergent, they are groomed they are molded they are created by individuals who find each other compatible no matter what anyone else thinks. If you need someones opinion when it comes to your life then you need to learn yourself. People are in messed up relationships damaging each other your lives and your bodies and all for the cameras of todays oppression AKA Social Media and when its time for the two people who were meant to be together find each other they are ruined by premeditated judgmental thoughts that are built in their head from the past and makes it damn near impossible for the two people to relate to each other to build that ship that needs to float on even water with out the red flags building stronger tides that keep rocking the boat. EVERYONE IS NOT THE SAME EVERY MAN IS NOT DAMAGED GOODS OR MAMAS BOYS EVERY WOMAN IS NOT A GOLD DIGGER WITH DADDY ISSUES But how would you know any of it if you dont work to get to know the person your trying to relate to. I say forget the DO NOT DATE UNDER YOUR RANK rule and go for what you feel is worth your life and your legacy... live your life learn from your mistakes Its your life. You make the ultimate decision and if it goes bad DEAL WITH IT! BUT STOP DAMAGING THE GOOD PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY WERE JUST A GOOD LOOK FOR YOU AT THAT TIME.
Posted on: Sat, 28 Jun 2014 02:46:17 +0000
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