(from INBOX) Hi Chris...I really need some advice. This is somewhat long, so please bear with me. Theres someone I was friends with for nine years but we fell out over money, but not at all the way you think. Over the years weve both helped each other and recently I had a situation that he offered to help, because he knows Im always good for it. Normally we pay each other back, by putting the money on the others cellphone bill. This time, he wanted me to send a money order in the mail. The day I was supposed to pay him back, I asked why couldnt we do it the way we normally do and he said because he wanted to submit proof of cleaning services for tax purposes, basically lying on his taxes. This is where it gets tricky. He gave me his address, but no apartment number and I hadnt realized it. We continued to talk, but I had for the past month been dealing with some major medical issues. With it being overwhelming, I do what I normally do, I shut down to recenter myself and pull it together. Meanwhile I told him to keep me posted to let me know when he got the money order. I was on the process of switching providers and he tried calling. Later I was able to connect Wi-Fi, but my service wasnt activated. I received an email from him asking where his money was and also accusing of changing my number. I responded to the email almost 3 hours later and told him I would call him one I got the chance and let him know I hadnt changed my number. I know hes frequently on Facebook and when I logged on, the first thing I see was 46 minutes prior he plastered my name in a post on Facebook saying I ruined a friendship over money on top of him posting edited versions of our conversation. So of course his Facebook flunkies jumped on the bandwagon without know the TRUTH. He even went as far as to still make it my fault after admitting that he didnt include his apartment number. Hes painted such an ugly picture of me that I was desperate to clear my name. I inboxed one of his bandwagon members and had even shown screenshots showing he wasnt being truthful. Now Im left with this bad rep because of him. Hes even leading people to believe Im the one that chose to mail the money order, when in fact it was him who asked me to mail it on top of not giving all the information necessary to make sure it got to him and the fact that I stated I wanted to take care of it that day, but because of his tax scheme, he asked me to mail it. Not to mention hes telling folks Im harassing him when Im not. When I thought things were settled, he posts something again and I emailed him to let him know what he was doing was defamation of character and he posted the edited version of my email and his supposed response when on fact that was not his response. And the reason emails are being exchanged is because I blocked his calls and texts, but let him tell it, he blocked me. He blocked me on Facebook, when I told the truth under the status he made about me. So at this point, Ive kept it business and let it be known once I receive the returned mail, that I will western union or moneygram it. We have several mutual friends and Ive gotten wind that hes still spreading lies and Im at a loss as to what to do or how to handle this. Weve fallen out several times because of him making always assuming the worst and Im not the only one. But after time goes by, he ALWAYS contacts me after hes done his dirt and calls himself apololying....I mean apologizing smh lol. After this, theres definitely no mending anything, but Im just tired of my name being dirtied because hes bent on maintaining his Facebook flunkies. What should I do?
Posted on: Tue, 09 Dec 2014 12:48:38 +0000
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