gud! Grateful Heart Fil Laah has the full compilation of what weve been telling the Abus and Ummus. Being Romantic is a Sunnah Last part How many men can tolerate their wives nagging let alone shouting? Umar said, you should be quiet when your spouse is angry, when one person is fire, the other person should be water...... Brodaz, when ur wife steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, dont let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playin wit you, if she did it mistakenly, its not her fault.... So why shout at her over every small mistake? As a man learn to ignore some things, dont be petty... Some men are so feminish.. Do hide and seek with ur wife, sing islamically accepted poems for your wife in the garden or inside d house, even if she is yabbing you... Assist her in house chores, pound yam, fetch water, dont just be commanding her everyday.. Bath together with her, wake her up for tahajud, swim wit her if its available, cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesnt know it.. Cooking is not the ticket to jannah.. Its not only a feminine duty.. Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her at times, call her from work, text her, write I love you in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her cupboard... All these are part of being romantic. When a woman tellls you that you are not romantic... It means you are nt doing all these things, its not d romance of d bedroom she is talking about...... Thats why u brothers have to study womens language its a 10 years course.. Lol... Now sisters, its also part of ur duty to be romantic too. Shyness doesnt mean u shud be shy to express ur love for ur hubby, some women think dat haya means u shud be tough even to ur hubby, ur husband is now ur mahram by virtue of marriage. There are 3 forms of mahram: by blood, by kinship and by marriage.. Send sweet text to ur husband at work, sometimes even if u r in d room discusin wit ur husband, stilll be chattin wit him on social network, even though he is right there in ur front, its fun!!!!!!!!! U shud be chattin wit ur husband, not nonmahrms on social ntwork.. Buy flowers for him, when eatin, give him d bigger meat, attimes bake cake for him to surprise him.. Sisters, use ur soft voice to sing for him, be creative, a poem like (((twinklle twinkle lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up above my world so high, like a diamond in my heart))). Sing poems for him, no shyness there. Al khansaa and khawlaa bint azwar used to sing, ibn qayyim and imam shafi used to compose poems. Its sunnah... One day, when your husband has gone to work, quickly clean the house and do d chores, cook his favourite dish, arrange it in the dining table, clean d cleanable and dust d dustable, then go to the bedroom, love-vendor it and make it romantic, make it dim and freshen it up, switch on a very sweet and halal nasheed, then take ur bath and prepare yourself for action. #Edited_by_me
Posted on: Fri, 22 Aug 2014 14:53:31 +0000
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