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بسم الله.... السلام عليكم... A. Criteria for Selecting Candidates for Wife In selecting the candidates wife, Islam has given them a few pointers: 1 Should a candidates wife has a basic religious education and good morals as women who understand religion will know their responsibilities as wives and mothers. As word of the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam: From Abu Hurairah radliyallahu anhu from the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam, he said: She was married for four things, since his property, offspring, beauty, and because of his religion, then choose women who are undoubtedly see you happy. (Agreed alaihi ) In the above hadith we can see, how he sallallaahu alaihi wa Sallam emphasis on the religious side in choosing a wife than with wealth, lineage, beauty even though. Similarly Allaah says: And do not marry polytheistic women until after their faith. Indeed, the believer slave woman is better than a woman polytheists, even though it draws ... your heart. (Surat. Al Baqarah: 221) With respect to the criteria of selecting candidates based on moral wife, Allah says: The women are vile for vile men, and vile men are for vile women (too), and good women are for good men, and men who good for women is good (too) .... (QS. An Nur: 26) A woman who has religious knowledge will certainly tried with the knowledge to become a woman who shalihah and obey Allaah. Women who shalihah be maintained by Allaah as his word: So women shalihah who obey God are longer care for him, therefore God preserve them. (QS. An-Nisa : 34) Being a woman shalihah for a man is the best of the jewelry world. The world is jewelry, and the best of the world is a womans jewelry shalihah. (HR. Muslims) 2 Let the candidate was a loving wife and many children. The Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wa Sallam once said: Anas, the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam said: ... marry women and many children ... lover. (HR. Ahmad and classed as saheeh by Ibn Hibban) Al Waduud means loving or can also mean full of love, with him having a lot of goodness, so that makes men willing to marry her. Medium Al Maratul Waluud are a lot of women who gave birth to a child. In choosing the woman who gave birth to many children there are two things to note: a. Physical health and prevents diseases of pregnancy. To know it can have recourse to the specialist. Therefore, a woman who has a good health and strong physical is usually able to give birth to many children, in addition to shoulder the burden of the household can also fulfill the obligation to educate children as well as stints as the perfect wife. b. Given the circumstances of his mother and sisters who had married them in case it includes a lot of women who gave birth to a child then it is usually the woman will like it. 3 Should wives still choose a candidate, especially for young girls who have never been married. It is intended to achieve the perfect wisdom and great benefits, among these benefits is maintaining the family of the things that would be troublesome life, plunges into a wide range of disputes, and the spread of pollution difficulties and hostility. At the same time tightening the straps would love husband and wife. Because the girl will give full smoothness and softness to the man who first protect, meet, and recognize it. As with the widow, sometimes from the second husband she did not get a real tenderness because of the large difference between morals first husband and the second husband. Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam explained partly wisdom marry a girl: From Jabir, he said, I have married so then I went to the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam and said he sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam: Are you married? Jabir said, so be it. Rasulullah said: Virgin or a widow? So I said, widow. Prophet said: Then why did you not marry a virgin girl, you can play with and she could play with you. 4 Putting people away (of kinship) marriages. It is intended for the physical safety of children descended from infectious diseases or defects in heredity. So that children do not grow up in a position of weakness or defect inherited both his parents and his ancestors diseases. In addition it is also to expand and strengthen family ties, social ties.
Posted on: Fri, 15 Aug 2014 10:56:30 +0000

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