---------------------------------------------- ~ GOLDEN QUOTES FOR FRIENDSHIP ~ ---------------------------------------------- Ya hanan ya manan ya qodimal ihsan bahrijudik malyan jud lanna bil gufron.. Distance.. is not really something that separates true friends. If you truly love someone, you are there. I am with My Mom evrywhere She goes.. Allah! If you want to reach Allah (swt) there is no shorter way than LOVE. - Its exciting when you find parts of yourself in someone else. Inner beauty,too....occasionally needs to be told its beautiful . WOMANS TRUE BEAUTY.. A woman once said “Beauty attracts men but wisdom keeps them. Elegance catches men’s attention but intelligence convinces them. Nagging irritates men but ‘constructive silence weakens them. The ‘boy’ in every man pumps out occasionally, the ability to handle this is a woman’s truest maturity. Men have secret struggles and silent pains, should you ever find them out, you have exhibited the greatest maturity. In the long-run your ‘words’ matters more to a man than your ‘looks’, so invest the right words. Earn a man’s respect and he will consider you the yard stick for all his action. Learn to mold the moods of your man. Men will naturally give u their futures if they can recall your maturity in yesterday’s issues… Women are everywhere but queens are scarce. Let the queen in you come alive and he will hold you in high esteem Always appreciate what you have. We as people tend to overlook our blessings. Which of the favors of our Lord will we deny? It is reported that Imâm Al-Shâfi’î – r.a – said: When I see a man from the Adherents of Hadîth (Ahlul Hadith), it is as if I have seen the Prophet – Allâh’s peace and blessings be upon him – alive. (Al-Khatîb Al-Baghdâdî, Sharaf Ashâb Al-Hadîth article 85.) Never be saddened by what you lose in this world, When you have Islam and good health with you. If you lose something that you were rushing towards, Then the fact that you lost it is sufficient. لا تأس في الدنيا على فائت *** وعندك الإسلام والعافية إن فات أمر كنت تسعى له *** ففيهما من فائت كافيه {Diwan of Imam as-Shafii} O you who seeks glory and strength in this world and its glitter, Know that time comes over every building and builder. And whoever’s glory comes from this world and its glitter, Then soon his glory will fade and will be no longer. Know that the treasures of the earth lie in riches and gold, So make your treasure be from piety and faith. يا من تعزز بالدنيا وزينتها *** الدهر يأتي على المبني والباني ومن يكن عزه الدنيا وزينتها *** فعزه عن قليل زائل فاني واعلم بأن كنوز الأرض من ذهب *** فاجعل كنوزك من بر وإيمان {Diwan of Imam as-Shafii} ‘Umar ibn Abdil-’Aziz said: Become a scholar if you are able. If you are not able, then be a student. If you can not, then show love for them. If you are unable to do that, then (at least) do not hate them. [Ibn Abdil-Barr in Jaamiu Bayaanil-Ilmi wa Fadhlihi, #143] Eesa (AS)son of Maryam said:“Do not look at the people’s faults as if you are lords, but look at your own faults as if you are slaves, because people are of two types: afflicted and pardoned. So have mercy on the afflicted and thank Allah for pardoning you and protecting you from it.” Life is hard. But makes it even harder for you and everyone around you is negativity. BE POSITIVE.. How can we always claim to LOVE the Prophet,the Seal,and the Rescuer and be so overwhelmed by negative energy? Lets see things differently and things will start to be different. Allah test us in many ways.in wealth,status,conditions.most of time it hurt most if we are test by something that includes our relationships with families,friends,relatives whom we sometimes have misunderstanding because some people are just extremely hard to dealt with.Allah said in the quran: And We have made some of you [people] as trial for others - will you have patience? And ever is your Lord, Seeing. [Surah Al-Furqan 25:20] Avoid breaking ties with them.if you find something you dont like in a person,always try to find excuses.exercise your heart to always understand and easily forgive.Touch their heart,it is the best way to counteract bad behaviors. May Allah subhanahu wa taala soften our hearts and forgive us and have mercy on us all. Ameen. Abdullah ibn Muhammad ibn Munazil (Allah have mercy upon him), of the early Muslims, said, “The believer seeks excuses for their brothers, while the hypocrite seeks out the faults of their brothers.” [Sulami, Adab al-Suhba] Imâm Muhammad bin Sîrîn (rahimahullâh) said: “If you were to find out that your brother has done something bad, then you should look after an excuse for him, if you can’t find an excuse, you should say “He has an excuse.”“ (Shu´b-ul-Îmân (6/323) by Imâm al-Bayhaqî) Umar bin al-Khattaab: “If you see that one of you has slipped, correct him, pray for him and do not help Shaytan against him (by insulting him, etc.).” (Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 15/256) Whoever loves to be saved from the Fire and entered into Paradise should die with belief in Allah and the Last Day and should treat the people in the way that he wishes to be treated by them. [Muslim] The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “None of you will attain (perfect) faith until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim). Do not do evil to those who do evil to you, but you deal with them with forgiveness and kindness. [Bukhari] If you truly care for someone…. Make Dua For Them If you truly dislike someone.. make dua for them, Dua is universal, it heals everything. If we don’t forgive each other, why do we expect Allah to forgive us? If we don’t show mercy to others, why should we ask Allah for mercy for ourselves? This point is highlighted in this beautiful Hadith. “No mercy will be shown to those who show no mercy, and no forgiveness will be given to those who cannot forgive others.” [Bukhari] Narrated Abu Huraira رضي الله عنه: Rasulullaah صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said, The hell fire complained to Allaah saying, O Allaah! My different parts eat up each other. So, Allaah allowed the hell fire to take two breaths, one in the winter and the other in summer. This is the reason for the severe heat and the bitter cold you find (in weather). (Sahih Bukhari Book #54, Hadith #482) They said: We call upon ALLAH, but He does not respond to us Ibrâhîm ibn Adham (d.160H) (rahimahullâh) said, when he was asked about the verse:“Call upon Me and I will respond to you.” [Sûrah Ghâfir 40:60] They said: We call upon Allâh, but He does not respond to us. So he said: You know ALLAH; yet you do not obey Him. You recite the Qur’ân; yet you do not act according to it. You know Shaytân; yet you continue agreeing with him. You claim to love Allâh’s Messenger (SAW); yet you abandon his Sunnah (guidance and way). You claim to love Paradise, yet you do not work for it. You claim to fear the Fire; yet you do not stop sinning. You say, Indeed death is true; yet you have not prepared for it. You busy yourselves with the faults of others; yet you do not look at your own faults. You eat the sustenance that Allâh provides for you; yet you are not grateful to Him. And you bury your dead; yet you have not heeded its lesson.” Al-Hâfidh Ibn Rajab related it in al-Khushû’ fis-Salâh (p.62) Abdullah Ibn Mubarak wrote in a letter to Al-Fudayl Ibn Iyaadh: Oh you who offer prayer in the sacred mosque! Had you witnessed us in the battlefield You would know that, compared to our Jihad, Your worship is childs play. For every tear you have shed upon your cheek, We have shed in its place blood upon our chests. You are playing with your worship, While worshipers offer your worship, Mujahideen offer their blood and person. The smell of nice perfume is for you, And our perfume is the dust and dirt, And it has reached us from the sayings of our Prophet, The martyr is not dead, This is a true correct saying, in which there is no lie. The dust of the people of Allah is never equal, To a thousand men, whilst the smoke is climbing. This is the book of Allah between us, The martyr is not dead - and this is no lie And the weighing -of deeds- that Day will be the truth. So those whose scales are heavy - it is they who will be the successful. ~ Quran Kareem Say, My Lord has only forbidden immoralities - what is apparent of them and what is concealed - and sin, and oppression without right, and that you associate with Allah that for which He has not sent down authority, and that you say about Allah that which you do not know. ~ Quran Kareem Indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to the doers of good. Shadaqa Allahu Al-Azim.. Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said: Convey (knowledge) from me even if it is just one verse (ayah). [Sahih Bukhari no. 3461]
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