-Some great things Ive learned by making mistakes: No one hears someone with a dog in every fight. Your message is drowned out by all the other lingering times you battled. Same premise as pick your battles. Sensitive, emotional people are great, but we have to check ourselves when we pursue every single thing that come across unjust. One at a time and see it through. Clowns reveal themselves. They dont heed their elders. They think they are the first to do this. They dont think the plans through. They speak before theyve closed the deal. They dont consider perception. They dont research history. Weve all been clowns in one way or another. People who cant forgive themselves cant forgive you. There comes a time when you fill with love and empathy for all of humanity and see other peoples reasoning for why theyve done what theyve said and done against you in protection of themselves as youd hope they would see your own reasonings. You understand their words and actions as the fear and pain they were facing & you get it. Such clarity in hindsight. Your romantic exes are peanut butter & youre ketchup. Great alone or with complimentary pairings, but bad as that mix. Theres often still value in them as a person and in due time, if you can learn to be their friend and not their mate, peanut butter and ketchup can co-exist peacefully and happily side by side without merging. There are few people who can help you learn more about yourself & how to be a better person & partner than an ex. Your ex will be great for someone else and so will you. And you will be happy for their fit. We are just fits and some sizes dont work as much as we love the article. Its a struggle. When it looks good on the outside & it feels good on the inside to both, its a fit. Career wise, dont see people doing different or better in your eyes as a reason to feel inferior. Utilize them as inspiration to do your best to better yourself. You can learn from every success and failure, but not if youre preoccupied with envy. Cherish every moment with your family. They most likely love you unconditionally. You will never get that time back. You can watch that movie in a decade, work until you think youve made it, read the book later, text or post for a lifetime, but if you didnt rob the light out of every moment of love that you could, your heart will ache in regret. Pour your soul into an outlet that rids stress, enhances health & raises confidence like creativity and/or fitness. And share the enthusiasm. Oh, and rescue an animal:)
Posted on: Fri, 19 Dec 2014 20:01:25 +0000
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