10 THINGS NOT TO DO TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND #10 Don’t Pretend To Listen: Girls talk, girls have a lot of things on their plate all the time and they want the person closest to them (their boyfriend) to know the ins and outs of their lives. When they’re so happily telling you everything, don’t just nod and pretend to understand. Be an active and helpful part of the conversation and let her know you’re listening and you care. #9 Never Compare Her To Other Girls: A little teasing doesn’t hurt anybody as long as you make sure she knws you’re teasing. You might sometimes want to make her possessive about you by saying that one girl looks hot today, but it might turn really ugly for you if you keep doing it. Jealousy is horrible, nobody wants to be jealous about the ones they love. You’re HERS for a reason, make sure it stays that way and she doesn’t start doubting your love while you still think it’s a joke to her. #8 You Can’t Buy Her Off: You might be a big spender and you might feel really proud when you spend thousands on your girlfriend but it will slowly make her feel bad for not doing nearly as much for you as you do for her. Small gifts and gestures are fine but try not to make her seem like a gold digger when she’s not even trying to be. #7 Never Bully Her: Girls have a very different way of doing things, they might not agree with men most of the time even if it isn’t in their best interest. You might want your girlfriend not to do certain stuff but she might insist on doing it, don’t bully her into not doing it. Either explain why it shouldn’t be done in the nicest way possible or let her do it. By forcing her you will only make her slowly develop a shield around herself from you. #6 Don’t Pretend: Every girl has hobbies, they vary from person to person. Your girlfriend might like a certain TV show or certain movies that you might hate, but showing a keen interest in them for her sake and by not being selfish about it, you’ll show her you actually care for her happiness. Don’t just pretend to like it, discuss about it, make her believe you’re putting an effort. She will know you are trying to like something she likes and that alone is a powerful feeling for any girl. #5 Don’t Create Distances: Distance is one of the scariest things to have in a relationship. If you make your girlfriend feel a distance between you two, it might be really hard for you to break that distance later. No matter how busy you are or what you’re doing in life, always let her know you’re there for her. #4 Don’t Say You Love Her Unless You Mean It: You can’t just play with a girl’s feelings just because it makes you happy and satisfied. Maybe the girl you just proposed to wants to get married soon, what are you going to do then? Run away? Make sure you know the person and their goals in life before you make them fall for you and completely depend on you. #3 Don’t Love Her Based On Personal Gain: Being a boyfriend, it is your job to protect and provide for your girl. Don’t love her when it’s convenient for you and when she does something for you. Some days she might just not want to be physical with you, if you show less love and care to her those days it might show that all you wanted was the lust and no love. #2 Don’t Ignore Her Feelings: Every girl wants her guy to take care of her feelings, to listen to her and to be there for her. One flower every once in a while won’t hurt. Or a love note secretly stashed in her purse when she’s not looking. Little things that will make her go “Aww, he cares” are very important. Take care of her smile. #1 Never Ignore Her On Purpose: So you think a little ignorance won’t hurt, it will. If she calls you or texts you, don’t ignore her. Reply or call her back. Unless you’re really busy or have some emergency, ignorance isn’t going to be good for either of you in the long run. You might think she’s going to forget it but she won’t. She might come back at you by ignoring you in your time of need, then you will think about how you ignored her in the past, so avoid doing it altogether.
Posted on: Thu, 03 Oct 2013 04:23:59 +0000
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