#104 Sahlala kumnandi kusenjalo emzini wethu noPhila, we carried on seeing our therapist and we were making progress. Ayanda was now 5 months pregnant or something and behaving very well, ukugqibela kwam uthetha naye, wayefuna imali yescan and I gave her, after that, shes been keeping her distance and oko wayegqibela ukuza nabazali bakhe apha kwam, zange aphinde. Her absence has been a huge relief, not only on me but on Phila too cos every time she showed up, we always ended up fighting. Things were so great that we started looking for a full time nanny cos besifuna ubuyisa abantwana and I was going to give birth soon, so we wanted to be a proper family. That excited me kakhulu cos I wanted to live with my kids more than anything in the world. Luna came back soon after giving birth, we went home ngala weekend noPhila kuba ndifuna ubona elizambane :v ndase ndafika engemhle umntwana bethuna, ongathi yintombi and he was a yellow bone, caba uthathe icomplexion katata wakhe. His name is Imonge and he was the cutest thing ever and ethandwa laway ngoocousin bakhe nzee :) qha ke uQhama ubefuna ufunqula untana ke yena umntwana wam. My mom was still good and loving married life, Liza was growing kakuhle and efana noLupe which made me love him even more. Tk naye was good, useBhayi mos this year and she finally broke up with that Sbu ombethayo. Riri and Ash were still great but since I didnt attend, they always came to my house but they didnt mind. Riri esonwabile noOnke wakhe and Ash was also happy with his mystery man. Sihle was still good too and strengthening me everyday, sisahamba icawe sonke and we all get along well so basically yonke into igrand. Its now September, the sun is out, birds are singing, flowers are bloomimg and everything is beautiful...so is my marriage :) ! I was extra happy on this day Phila and I were going down to Mthatha to fetch the kids. I was so excited I could barely contain myself Phila baby calm down! I laughed Me haaaa ave uthanda undibaxa kanene wena Phila I know you miss them Me I cant wait to see their faces when they see that bahamba nathi this time around Phila Nande is going to flip I smiled Me yeah, yaz baby I never imagined that my life would turn out like this Phila me neither, you have really changed me for the better and our children, zange ndizicinge tuu ba ndizobe ndina3 yonke Me hahaha who would have thought hey? Phila kodwa mna I just knew that youre the one for me Me so did I we smiled at each other then kissed. Sakhwela then sayindlela ukuya eMthatha. Safika late around 8 then went to buy 4 large pizzas and Debonairs plus drinks then we drove home. Sis Nokonwaba opened the gate and Phila drove in. We got out and I took the pizzas and Phila took our bags. Ndayongena endlini and uMa was sitting alone elounge, heee akancuma umfazi xa singena, she stood up and came to hug me. Ndabeka phantsi iPizza and squeezed her tightly Ma aibo yintoni na ningatsho mfazi xa nisiza? Phila whats a surprise kanti? She laughed and hugged her son Ma ninjani kodwa? She said rubbing my tummy Me oohhh siright Ma, sendifuna nje lomntu aphume! Ma oh awusengxame nje! Phila kudala ndisithi makalinde ke ngoba uOctober sekefikile Ma oh Liya ntombi, lenyanga ezayo qha Me yhu hay Ma ndidikwe! Baphi khona obhabha bam?! Ma uwo xa bepha kula playroom yabo, abeva nangeendlebe abo! I laughed and walked to their room. I opened the door and saw the cutest image ever. Nande was driving around his big car and uQhama ekhwelise udolly wakhe caba kuyiwa etown, they were playing house :) I smiled and called Phila, weza. Sakhe sama emnyango and watched them playing, I have thee cutest babies in the world kodwa yaz mna. Me tch molweni! They both turned around and ran to us, Qhama weza kum ke as usual and Nande to his dad Nande buyile! Me ewe boy sibuyile nje we took them to the lounge, wabe usis nokonwaba elungisa ukutya. We sat down and the twins had a lot to say to us. Yhu abathethi maan and bayaphikisana ke nakulonto yabo but I was just watched them talking and using their little hands to demonstrate Phila yhu niyathetha maan! I laughed Me hay khayeke abantwana baby The food came and we ate, watched a little tv then sayolala. Sahlala iweekend kwabe kumnandi but ke Sunday we had to go back, uMa was so sad to see us leave cos she was used to the twins but ukhona wethu u-Imonge so she wont be so lonely. I packed up everything for the twins but I left a few clothes and toys for when they come to visit. On Sunday late, ndabahlamba then ndabanxibisa Qhama mama? She said patting my shoulder Me ewe baby Qhama yahamba wena? Me ewe sisi ndiyahamba they both looked down Nande mama? Me mmh? Nande funuhamba nam Me nawe uzohamba nana va? Qhama mna? Me nawe nana Bona O! I finished ubalungisa then I bathed myself and we were ready to leave. We prayed then sayofaka izinto emotweni, sangena nathi. The twins were so excited, I sat with them at the back and they were talking non stop, saphumla besolala Phila bafuze wena futhi abantwana ngokuthetha 20 Me haha mxm...ndiright and nabo baright! Phila kodwa iboy yam yona izofuza utata Me oh bethuna udaddy wabantu! Phila oh okay youre mocking me Me soze baby, ndikuthanda kangaka! Phila thandwa ndim Mamj he looked at me through the rearview mirror and winked. I blushed and looked down...funny how my hubby still has that effect on me :) Two weeks later..... I was right, living with my babies was awesome. Their laughter and voices just filled the house with life. I wasnt attending anymore so I spent a lot of time with them and we didnt need the full time nanny yet, just lomntu ozobagada when I have to be at school. On the 18 September is my wedding anniversary, Phila and I had been married for 2 years now. He took me out for dinner that night, I wasnt really in the mood because I was not feeling so good, I had mild cramps tugging at my lower abdomen but that wasnt unusual for me. Anyway he convinced me to go and I ended up agreeing. The night was going quite well even though the cramps didnt subside. Phila so I have something for you Me *ndisinekee!* oohhh what is it? Phila yima kaloku! He took out a black and small box, he opened it and there was a big ass diamond ring inside it. I blinked and tears escaped my eyes Me Phila, whats this? Phila I know you lost your ring so I wanted to get you another one I forgot this minor detail ke guys but my engagement ring was stolen ngokuya uPhila wayesenza ezanto zakhe, the culprit was never found. Me kodwa baby you didnt have to Phila I wanted to cos you deserve it he took it out then slipped it on my finger, wow my finger just sparkled, kaloku I only had my wedding band Me I love it, thank you he leaned over and kissed me I have something for you too It was my turn to whip out black boxes :P I opened it and he gasped Phila hay baby! How can you even afford this! Me I saw you looking at it, Ive been saving Phila no I cant take this watch baby Me you can and you will, yiza I took off his old watch and put the new one on its like it was made for you he leaned over and kissed me again Phila thank you sthandwa sam, I love it...I love you! Me I love you too We stayed and enjoyed the rest of the evening then around 8 we went home. Xa siphuma emnyango, yatsho kakhulu le pain but ndaziqinisa. Sangena emotweni and he started driving, ndasiva ba siyatshisa isinqa Thixo. Then I suddenly felt a wetness, did my water just break? Yaqinisa ipain and I knew that Im in labour Me uhm Phila...I think we should go to the hospital! Phila why? Are you okay? Me I think my water just broke I cried out as the next contraction hit me. Phila quickly made a u-turn then sped off to the hospital. Safika esbhedlela and they me put in a wheelchair, bandisa kwi ward. The nurse inserted two fingers inside me Nurse okay youre only 7cm dilated, youre getting there I laid on the hospital bed and screamed out in pain as I went through all the contractions Me its too soon! Phila baby just breath, okay...deep breaths! I did as I was told. Inoba yade yaphela ihour oko ndihleli. My doctor came and told me that Im now 10cm so I should get ready to push. I was pushed to the delivery room, where I was prepped and ready to deliver my little boy. Dr okay Liya, push! I pushed and pushed and pushed and pushed, Phila was holding my hand the whole time. I pushed until I heard a cry, I collapsed on the bed ndazomnikwa umntwana wam, I couldnt even see him kakuhle, I was so tired so ndamnika uPhila and I passed out.... *Phew!*
Posted on: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 15:15:40 +0000
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