15 March 2014 PERSONAL PROBLEMS 7 REASONS FOR SELFDESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOUR 1 - TRAUMA GUILT You subconsciously want to punish yourself, for example for having been raped or surviving an accident, even though it wasnt your fault. 2 - MORAL GUILT At that time what you did didnt seem so bad but now youre in conflict with your conscience, hence the self-punishment. 3 - YOU FEEL UNWORTHY Because of childhood abuse you subconsciosly believe you dont deserve good things so you sabotafe them. 4 - FEAR OF INTIMACY You need nurturing but youre afraid of being hurt so you reject your loved once before they can reject you. 5 - PERFORMANCE ANXIETY You believe youll fail in whatever you set out to do so you self-destruct by not even trying. 6 - PHOBIAS If you suffer from social phobia for example, you push people away so as not experience the anxiety of the phobia. 7 - PERSONALITY DISORDERS Self-defeating and self-destructive behaviour could be symptoms of personality disorders.
Posted on: Sat, 15 Mar 2014 08:58:24 +0000
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