15... There is one thing about Eric,ebekwazi ukuzithethela ke khona.Nam belundiphambanisa uthando or May be I am a fighter by nature , I dont believe that iKhona into engexazululekileyo apha emhlabeni also bendinentliziyo elungileyo , be ndingafuni ukumbona umntu osokolayo. Bendifuze utata wam Hureeeeeeeeee. Ndikhumbula e Boarding school the time ndise high school, there was this gal obefunda nge bursary, her family could not afford to even send her R50,00.I started to share half of my monthly allowance with her. I told uTata ngaye, Dad increased my allowance to accommodate her, bendide ndimphathele neempahla ezintsha xa ndigodukile. I only stopped e-varsity coz by then , she had a new bursary , imnika ne- pocket money of which she was able ukuthumela I half ekhayeni. It fulfills me to see her now being independent and working for herself, bonus is , she is still greatfull for what I did for her and we are still in contact. Another thing for my stupidity could be the fact that my relationship with Eric, was my second serious relationship after Zukos, I was naive and still believe in fairy tale love. Eric: baby mayingakupenikise lento yalemali endiyirholayo, ill be off debts before u know it, by March I-loan iyaphela, igarnishee yona I phela Ngo April etc etc.. Besendinga mkholelwa, tuu uyaxoka maan UEric I also learnt that umatshonisa umboleka IR900 loan every month, then he psys back R1,200 with R300 interest, of which iR500 from the R900 uyi contributor ko kwabo for ukutya.then R400 ayisebenzise for transport. Me: baby the first thing you need to do is to get out of this Matshonisa business, the R500 oyikhupha kokweni suppose iza apha ngoku, utya apha, ukutya kuthengwa Ngemali tata andithi?, ayomana yamaSirayeli yini. Kaloku uMomnci no tata bebe Sebenza Nabo, so they can afford ukondla a bantwana Babo. So to me , it was like u-Eric akashiyanga mntwana pha and on top of that Usile nalo Momnci, coz Unyana wakhe azenaye emtshatweni is not expected to contribute anything, while esebenza naye, hayi kaloku Inimba mayibenye . Eric: ndiyakuva baby, qha ndiyaboyika ababantu, Yhoo itimer lizakunditya ngamazinyo Me: oh ndim lo ungamoyikiyo, ba mna ndikufeede Umdala kangaka usebenza? Hayi bo akwenziwa njalo. I am trying to help you here to get out of lamatyala ayintaba Eric: wazihleka hlekisa , ndiyavuya nje baby , use ube nje ke wena , uyandithanda Nyani wena nana, being accepted ndinje is just too much for me. Ndiyathandaza uThixo andiphe amandla okukuthanda okokoko, ndingadlali ngawe.most women would have ran away by now,I will stop giving my parents imali starting this month. Me: akuzosuke uyeke kaloku, sebeyiqheyile, and im sure bayayibudgeter, kaloku both of them works ePost Office as well, so abarholi Kakhulu. I thought it was proper ukuthi Eric informs them on time. Me:Ngomso qha wena Kuzofuneka xa uphuma emsebenzini, uye E-Tembisa, ubaxelele ba uyasaver ulungiselela ilobola nomtshato so uzakukhe unqumame ukubanika Imali nyanga zonke. Le yoku player big ungathi unemali ayizokukunceda tuu. Eric: baby mna bendicinga bandisuke nje ndingabaniki, iyakuba nde le yokubaxelela akubazi aba Bantu, Be ndimbona uyaboyika Nyani abazali bakhe, Shem Me: andiyifuni tu leyo, kufuneka ubanike imbeko yabo, ukuba bathini yeyabo leyo, uzobe uyenzile eyakho indima.Nowuphina uMzali ebeno understander, actually if bebenothando suppose this came from them, and ask you to focus on ilobola nomtshato. Ndicingba wonke uMzali ufunu bonumntwana wakhe ekhula ephumelela ebomini. Eric: kwanele Sthandwa Sam ndivile, ndizolunga Ndiye khona ngomso, Nyani I cant continue like this, uzodikwa nawe ethubeni, ukwenza Yonke into for ixhego elingangam. He he. Yandihlekisa leyexhego, at least uyaziqonda Umdala The plan was to get him out of umatshonisa first, this month nogan , he will still not be able to contribute towards ukutya Kwam, but at least, he wont have to borrow R900 kwakhona, uzoboleka only iR400 ye transport,then next month uzophuma kumatshonisa then start saving, ebezofumana another I relief from Ibank loan, all together he was gonna be able to save R1000 monthly, R400 transport/ pocket money and then contribute R400 towards ukutya Kwam. Yhoo Bendi offerisha idebt counselling eserious, I -cash bail out was out of the question, I thought kufuneka aziphumele or else hell continue making debts, knowing that ubaby is there to bail me out, hey I was building my future husband apha, I was looking kwi future. As planned, uye waya ETembisa, xa endibalisela , uThi ufike behleli elounge bebukele iTV, after he told them indaba yokuthi uzothi Xha ekubanikeni Imali akhe afocuse kumtshato, uthi both didnt say a word, they just stood up and left him there. UThi wahlala about 10 mi uses kwesositulowangathi uncanyathiselwe, kunani usivile mntwana, Cwaka, then. He stood up and left. I told him not worry ngoba Nyani bafuna athini kanti. Going back to my home. Though I was in constant contact with my family, Zange ndiyithi Vu into yeproposal ka Eric, bendifuna ukuthi ndiyijonge kuqala, and also ndibone ukuba uzimiselele kanjani, kaloku xa luselutsha uthenjiswa Yonke into esemhlabeni, I was just careful not ukuqala ukubala amaqanda enkuku ingekaqanduseli. Umama was doing well, impilo yakhe ibiselubuyele kwi simo sakhe sakudala. Yhoo umama wam uhlakaniphile or should I say ebeyingcaphephe when it comes kwinto zomthetho. Anyway wonke uMzali is a hero or a shero Emehlweni abantwana bakhe, especially xa nisesebancinci.My mom claimed a lot of money from the company yalatruck ibibatshayisile ; she claimed loss of income for my dads death,for yena no Luvo the time besesibhedlela, medical expenses, plus emotional trauma. I-Moto was replaced by I-Insurance yona.The company opted for I-out of court settlement, bafumana something in the regiion of R2 m, the bulk of it was for loss of future income katata. UBhuti Xhanti yena was busy nomtshato, umtshato ubozoba nge 3rd week ka Feb, e Gcuwa. 1st week ibilulwamkelo lwabaKhwenyana kuloMakoti, umakoti thina besizakumamnkela nge Sunday after i-white wedding. The wedding plans were underway, but it was going to be a small do, only about 30 people, strictly close family.OO boyfriend abafana noo Eric were not invited.. Kwaaa Mna be ndizakuhla early kulaveki yomtshato ndiye Ebhayi ukuyoncedisana nomama with the preparation zokwamkela indwendwe Zakhe. I flew to PE then drove with mom, Luvo uBhuti Xhanti, Tatomncinci, Odabawo Nomakazi, to Gcuwa, we used 4 cars. my big brother was getting married ..halala halala , he was more than excited, words are not enough to explain how happy he was, or ukuwuzoba uMbhalo ubusebusweni bakhe. Sifike kwakusasa eGcuwa, sasihambe eBhayi early Kakhulu,besilindelwe ngabakhozi, senzelwa ububele obungaphaya kokuqonda. They made sure that we are well taken care of, inyama ibidlala abantwana but mna nomama asikho Kakhulu apha enyameni, weight watchers Yhoo, this worried abakhozi, coz bebefuna Sitye singakwazi nokuhamba , everything well went, besonwabile heha, umakazi ebeselengathi ngowalapha, uBhuti you could tell uyiregular apha, ebephethe ULelethu Ixesha elininzi. Later in the afternoon, bendihleli nomama no makazi phandle, sizincokolela into zethu, umakazi ebendibuza Yonke into nge Rhawuti, Sithe sisahleli kamnandi, UDabawo ka Nwabisa( Bhuthi Xhanti s fiancé) joined us uDabawo : nisahleli kakukhle Kodwa bakhozi bam Mama : sizipholele mkhonzi, siyabulela, sizonwabele kamnandi, sekude kwaphela nokwakudinwa kwendlela uDabawo: wena maki, makunikile into zakho morc UMakazi was the most famous one , already, unjalo ke umntu wotywala wenzabahlobo msinya, and ebezithe VRAM kamnandi. Makazi: Ndimnander mkhonzi wam omhle , Yhuu Unyana wam utshate emzini wabantu inene... Halala yiyiyi..bafazi qoshelisani iimpundulu Yhuu umakazi kekhona nge drama wancanywa. uDabawo: kanti kubulela thina mkhonzi, unembeko umntwano pha kunyana wethu omtsha, kaloku ikhaya lomntwana amaxesha amaninizi Uqala ngokulibona emntwaneni ungekababoni abazali. unothando ke yena ndincamile,uyayithanda intombi yethu akazenzi, umntu atshate umntu onabantwana abathathu abangasongabakhe abe yena engenamntana m not even oyi 1 ? Luthando lokwenene olu Bomb! Yhooo besingayazi ke leyo, thina sazi ULelethu, kazi uBhuti Uyayazi na ? Asazi nokuba loDabawo kaNwabisa is saying this genuinely or is making sure ukuthi siyayazi for ukuchithela uNwabisa...
Posted on: Mon, 30 Jun 2014 19:11:34 +0000
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