15 years ago my Mom one and only girl cant cook and my grandma is the famouse women who have great taste to make food in my village, she make very nice cracker from spinach leaf, not only that she make every traditional Sundanese taste very special and all other 6 girl have almost same skill ass my grandma. But my mom cant cook any thing just boil water and instant noodle, sometime sisters make joke for my mom about cooking when Ied Mubarak, but my mom just silent, sometime I feel embarrassing and angry to my mom, why she cant cook, we can eat at my grandma house only. When Im 4 years old my mom make 1st experiment to cook so mom bring me and my brother Kun Fotografi to traditional market to buy fish, she let us to choose which fish we want and fish still a life, back from market me and brother play with our fish, and my mom grab fish of my brother she clean it and preparing to cook, my brother shock and cry to my mom why you kill that fish? because he really like his fish but my mom cut and fried that fish, so since that day he just eat vegetables, and also since that day mom never cook again. I have many question on my head why she so lazy to cook?, after im 11 years old, I understand why she cant cook, as mother she have many pressure in her life, 1st husband is my dad, he try find job but seem so hard for him to get once so my mom make her own business,she make cookie and cake as she ever work for bakery so she know how to do and make, but some body stole all stuff for make bread and cookies, so she bankrupt. My mom struggle to get money for husband and 2 sons, mom and my dad deforce when im 3 years old they have good friendship till now, then my mom marriage again with 2nd husband, he hard work person but he never give my mom money, because at that moment my mom can make money from tailor, so she make dress and clotes, my step father he lie to my mom, he said his 1st wife already pass away, but in fact she still alive, mom knowing after 1st wife come to my mom in market and she trow a boy to my mom and said that is your step son take him I dont want him anymore because you flirt and stole my husband my mom confuse and take my step brother home, at home mom and father have big fight, step father take his boy to 1st wife, so at that moment she know, she not one and only wife from her husband, she ask to deforce many times but she got violence from husband, she stress a lot she ever pretend be crazy and familly bring her to mental hospital she wish husband will leave her alone. I stay with my grandma me my brother visit my mom in mental hospital she look not remember us when my grandma go to see doctor she hug me and cry, she acting front of everybody but cant to her kids, when her husband coming she just collapse since that my mom always collapse if she hear sound of motorbike of my step father she very afraid and hurt so deep to my step father because every violence and lies. Her boutique getting famose and she getting busy because order to make dress from neighbour till doctor and some people in goverment of west java, she ask anothers purpose to get deforce after she have 2 dougthers, 1st douther already take by 1st wife of my step father when my sister Rita 3 months old, my step father say ok but he take Rina 3 years old at that time my other sister, she said ok because she want to divorce since 11 years ago because of violance and lies. Finally they diforce and my mom have happy for moment but after 1 week she missing her daughters but ex husband not allow her to see them, so she can see them from faraway when they finish school till they 13 years old, during 10 years they divorce ex husband always disturb my mother and asking to back with him till today. Now I know why she cant cook because all her life is about survive for her kids, Samsul M Arief, Subhi Sulistio Gomez,Rita Rosita and Rina mahdiati, now she can relax now time for me to survive for her, she is strong women she my hero, anyway she can cook now its like magic for me but I still cant often eat what her cooking because I am faraway from her. I love you Mama, Kun, Ita, Ina
Posted on: Fri, 09 Jan 2015 05:42:47 +0000
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