24 year old Nakku, has been dating a 55 yr old married man for the last 3 years. This is her story……lets call him Ali. He has never paid my tuition, rented for me nor bought for me anything precious. I still stay with my parents. This man has 2 wives, 5 children some are older than me. I fell in love with him blindly. He cheated on me a number of times but I stayed. One time I told him to choose between me and his extra girlfriends, he told me to make a choice (either to live with it or walk away) I stayed, do u know why because after school he helped me get a job. I used to find used condoms in the bedroom and he would boldly tell me that one of his brothers left the condoms in his room. This happened a number of times I lost count. Anyways recently he got a visitor from Netherlands who got a Ugandan girlfriend Aliyah. We got close, since we all stay together although I personally I just go there for weekends. Me and Ali have been having differences and on We decided to talk about them. So after work I went to his place, John and Aliyah were there. We went out had some drinks and came home at midnight. I showered and headed to the bedroom, John came following me to the room. He pushed me on the bed and I screamed cos in the process I hurt my arm. He wanted to rape me, I screamed the others came and he started slapping me. He didnt give me a chance to say anything. I tried fighting back, the girlfriend joined him saying that why am I fighting her man, she sat on me and started beating me as my boyfriend looked on. In the process I bit her fingers and she shouted, thats when my boyfriend joined that I am causing commotion in the house and making noise for people. I screamed, shouted for help. Ali boldly told me that even if I scream no one will hear me nor come to my help. He boxed me, threw me out the window to the ground and they all started kicking me. I lost my consciousness for some time, when I woke up. The room was locked and I was in alone with Ali, I started screaming he slapped me again I ran for the door but it was locked I banged at it called for help. All he said nobody can help me, he threatened me that if I informed police he would come after me and my family. I promised him that I wouldnt say a thing. I begged him to forgive me, I begged him to call my mother. He told me that his friend made a request and I refused, and started making noise. He started blaming me and insulting me, telling me that he had spent so much money on me. (He bought me a laptop and 2 phones, got me a job) he slapped me again and said he was going to kill me. I cried silently cos my voice couldnt scream anymore, I begged him. I went down on my knees. I went to the corner of the house and say there silently waiting for my fate, he opened the door and I think he forgot to lock it; I just grabbed my bag and phones and took off. He came after me, but I took off like a bird, his friends got into the car and started running after me. I found a nearby small flower bush and hid myself there for some minutes when I saw them heading to the opposite direction I ran to the road took a boda and directed it to my home........... I went to police made my statement, handed the phone, my clothes full of blood to the police. That evening Alis brother called and told me that I should remove the case from police. My problem right is, my boyfriend is from a prominent family, they have money, they have power in the government They are always telling me on phone that I will lose, no poor man can win against a rich man. So what should I do? Should fight for justice?
Posted on: Tue, 25 Nov 2014 05:30:10 +0000
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