25 years ago (I still have to do the math...it seems like a lifetime :) ). I was getting out of and away from a toxic relationship. I really was not interested in anyone or anything except to heal and move forward with my life. Then my cousin Kfoury Johnkins (who I also attribute to saving my life), said why dont I come stay at his place for awhile. I would be safe there. He shared the upper level of a house with some guy named Mike. I found out that Mike had lived in our neighborhood all of his life, yet since he was a couple of years younger I had probably just never paid attention. Mike was funny, silly, sweet, annoying, maddening, protective, caring and so very smart...all rolled into one. He became my friend. Then my best friend. He saved my life. He is the only man I ever prayed to God for, for any reason. He became my husband. He became the father of my children. He is my soulmate. To this day he is still funny, silly, sweet, annoying, maddening, protective, caring, so very smart, and so loving...all rolled into one. He has yet to realize how horribly upset I become, and how he frustrates me, when diabetes overcomes him and he says and does things that I know are not him. He has yet to realize he has and is my heart, soul, and very being, and there is little of me without him. We have had our ups, downs, and turnarounds, yet there is no man in this universe who can still make me weak at the knees just by saying hi. It is said that even before you were born, the name of your spiritual half has been determined. Each soul has a perfect match. Your soulmate is the person who is intended to help you “complete yourself.” A person is unable to complete his mission in life alone. Everyone needs someone to help them become a better person. Often soulmates appear in disguise...I did not expect to meet him, let alone fall in love so hard. There is almost a mysterious force pushing you forward that tells you this is “the right one” for you. The beginning is not always blissful. However, it’s a feeling deep in your soul, that says, this person is the right one. Loving you gave me something new that Ive never felt, never dreamed of. Somethings changed, no its not the feeling I had before, oh its much much more. Love, I never knew that a touch could mean so much, what a difference and when we walk hand in hand I feel so real. He is the only man who can just say hi and my knees still go weak... :) I am blessed to have found my soulmate, and I am grateful to God for that. Happy 51st Birthday to the love of my life, James M. Mike Chandler.
Posted on: Sat, 20 Dec 2014 15:08:29 +0000
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