5 Reasons Why You Should NOT Stay In Touch With Your Ex It is extremely tempting to get back with an ex, because a known devil is better than an unknown one. Here are reasons why you should stay out of touch... Have you ever been treated like a backup plan or been in a relationship that was emotionally taxing /abusive or both. Well,youre not an exception. But the one thing you really need to do is, follow the No Contact Rule. This age-old resolution spells never keep in touch with your ex because, no two exes can ever stay friends without one being emotionally used by the other. Theres always one who moves on and the other who lingers on. If you still think were wrong, heres why you should follow the No Contact Rule. To move on If you are sure about moving on and starting afresh, say never to see again instead of goodbye. No two exes can just be friends. To walk out of a relationship completely is an important step. It may make one of you miss your relationship and want to come back while the other person may think otherwise. Broken memories Every time you talk to your ex, chances are youd be reminded of some memory from the past. While it may just be another happy memory for your ex, you may want to relive it. Also, even if you have to rebuild new memories, youll be constantly comparing it to your past. Frustrating to see him/her move on Your ex may be extremely comfortable telling you who he/she is dating. You, unable to be the friend they want you to be, will be left weeping alone. Even if the other person is not in a relationship, imagine hearing about their flirty tales! Wouldnt that break your heart. The on-and-off curse Staying in touch with your ex could spark up the chemistry, but only when one of you is lonely. And once that phase is over, things go back to square one. The result youd be in an on-off relationship, with no clarity about where you stand. Also, would you be comfortable in a no strings-attached relationship while you feel strongly for the other person. Think about it! You lose prospective partners Just because you are in touch with your ex, youd be bound by a moral obligation to not date anyone else. Imagine, the only reason you are not with someone who may be more loving is because you dont want to break away from an ex, who has moved on completely. But just to remind you, while you stay miserable, your ex may be having fun. How to keep off 1. Use strong words to communicate that you need to stop talking. 2. Do not attend calls or reply to messages even if they initiate it. 3. For some time, avoid places where you are bound to bump into your ex. 4. Dont allow mutual friends to play elves. Tell them politely to stay away from your personal matter. 5. Dont respond to the sad status messages on their social networking sites or the tales theyve spread about their heartbreak.Theyll get over it in no time.
Posted on: Fri, 17 Jan 2014 09:18:08 +0000
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