6 years ago on this very day something happen to me...i meet a girl that I called at 9 pm at night not expecting much....hahaha but its funny how life presents itself... There are certain types of people like your friends who you barely meet but just know that ya are Goin to be friends for life. Lol. Well this girl who I talked too 6 years ago I knew that night that she might be that girl who will be it hahaha.. Well here is my take on love....True love consist of 5 things to make it complete. First is Happiness- we all love to be happy. We want to fall in love because of the human urge of happiness. I believe everyone should be happy, whether its with a person, thing or anything. Happiness must be present for love to exist. Love is a form of happiness but stronger. No one gets love without being happy. Second is Pain- Love both has happiness but also pain. Without pain love dont hold its value. Pain is fear, anger, sadness, etc.....love can only exist if there is a sense of lost. One may not value things that r lost that has not value but if something holds value. ...the thought I of losing it exist, thus brings forth pain. Example is late night arguments....how many have we all been through lol....but we do it because they fear of pain....the pain of losing what we value. ...Third is sacrifice... no Im not talking about Jesus lol... im talking about doing things that you have no significant gain but yet your action is for your significant other. A prime example of my sacrifice is when I missed my brothers wedding so I can be there for my Wifey mom who passed away 2.5 years ago... there was no significant gain....i actually made my brother more sad at me then anything but I was willing to put with it because, she needed me. No I couldnt take her pain away but I knew and she knew that me being there for her meant the world for her...for her to smile even at a time like that was worth it. Sacrifice isnt something easily done....most of the time you do wit without thinking about it. When it becomes second nature too you....thats love becoming real. Third is communication- haha this is funny to me because everyone knows this but yet when things get tough people forget about it.....True Love there is always communication....when theirs communication it thus brings forth compromise. Thus also brings in trust. If couples can put pride and anger away and communicate things would go a lot smoother hahaha but that often is an understatement lol. Communications brings sooo much too the table. It opens doors to what eyes can not see. Without communication love cannot be present because there is no direction for leeway....Fifth is Dreams- love without dreams is life without hope. When your dreams become one love exist. When we support each others drams and watch it come true, its one of the best journey both can take. Selfish dreams dont get love anywhere but oneself. But when dreams become shared thats part of love that can only be felt by time. When my love graduate d with her BA... that was her dream to achieve, thus it became my dream also....i wanted to see her walk in her gown and go up too the stage and get her degree. Dreams that are born alone can become shared and bloom into not just flower but many flowers. If you dont share the same dreams how can true love Co exist?....6 years....6 years ago from this day how would I know that I found true love? Hahaha today I have realize that I found more then true love but I found life itself. .Maichoua Greenly Xiong I didnt know this but thank you....you have gave me life that I never knew that was there. You turned this boy 6 years ago into the man that I am today. ...you give me hope and dreams for becoming a father and becoming the husband that I want to be. I didnt just find love, I found my life, my home, myself......6 years seemed like a flash but yet I cant wait for our next journey together..... i really cant wait till I put that ring on your fingers and say I do.....i cant wait to travel the world with you....i cant wait to lay in bed and wake up every mourning and count our new wrinkles together. ...i love you baby and too our future that awaits us. .....thank you for reading.....
Posted on: Tue, 23 Sep 2014 05:48:54 +0000
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