8 Ways to Grow Up in Your Marriage #1) Learn to let go of being defensive. This was always a challenge for me but I never really understood why until I took the time to reflect and work on myself. Yes, growing up the sixth child out of seven and in between my two brothers may have something to do with it. I was always on the defense. I had to learn how to put my guard down with my husband, and realize that he was trying to fight with me and not against me. #2) Learn to let go of being right. Some of us tend to have the “I’m always right” mentality. I can’t think of any relationship where this mentality works, but it can especially be detrimental in a marriage. If your spouse never feels comfortable expressing himself or coming to you with a disagreement, then that’s a problem. My husband used to hold things in all the time because I would hardly ever see or agree with his point of view. After a few blowups, I understood the role that I played with only seeing my side. See the full list here --> bmwk.me/19LmAA4
Posted on: Tue, 15 Oct 2013 05:02:16 +0000
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