A LETTER TO MY FUTURE HUSBAND Dear, I don’t know whether you are reading this or not but I felt something inside me and thought of writing this to you. Baby, realize that if I have got married to you it means you mean my world. There will be times when I will lose my mind, over small or big things in life; I am like this a hyperactive person, but never misinterpret me. I have extreme mood swings and might have difficulty coping up with your way of living, but I promise I will understand you and your family. I have been dreaming about you like every other girl since the age of 4. You coming over the white charming horse, picking me up and taking me along with you is something I have fantasized since ages. I have been thinking more about you nowadays, what you would be doing currently, how you would be reacting over things, how you would be spending your days because somewhere that will shape you in a man and that man will get married to me one day. By now you must have understood, how calculative and confused I am. I have seen dreams, which I want to fulfill with you. I want you to be my partner in crime; I want to write letters to you and poems describing how wonderful it was when the last time we made love, the way you did the crazy cuddling, ruffled my hair affectionately, moved your fingers magically over my body, gave those morning kisses on my neck which was more effective than a coffee to wake me up. I want to sit with you and have endless conversations and make times which we would cherish when we reach old age. I want to sit with you in front of the open sky and do nothing, just nothing but be with YOU. I want to fight with you over silly issues and again resolve them with fine endings. You see our dear society has told many things about marriage. How a career oriented lady can never be a good wife. See, nobody except you has the right to judge me when it comes to this topic. And I think I have selected the right person to make the judgment. I will definitely have professional commitments and so will you, but that in any way won’t mean a compromise of our personal lives. You know I want to be successful but whenever I paint the picture of victory, I always see myself holding your hand. Sometimes in life you need to say a NO, I might do so, I might need that space, and I will provide you with it whenever you require, but will you? Sometimes I may want to spend time with my girlfriends or might want to read a book or just want to be aloof. Please understand me in those times. My choices are very fickle, these are the times when I am perplexed whether to have panipuri or just satisfy myself with an ice cream, but the choice of mine which won’t change is you.I want to cook with you, I want us to be doing stuff together, I want to laugh, I want to cry, I want to fight, I want to raise our babies, I want to make your family mine and moreover I want to be your best friend. But do you also want to do the same? There 1000 things in my head which I want to share with you, 1000 questions which I want to ask you, I want you to be inquisitive about me too. You know relationships shown in movies are not the same in real life; they are difficult and tough to build as well as manage. We have to work over it and make it happening. This will not happen overnight, but it will definitely happen someday. Till then I will wait for that day and for you. Your loving wife. #Womansera
Posted on: Sat, 29 Nov 2014 00:21:11 +0000