A Letter From A Newly Married Girl To Her Mother. Dear mom, Like every normal girl in this planet, I was very much excited about marriage right from my childhood days. It was like a fantasy to me, but now I know what marriage really means it’s not completely what I thought it would be or not as shown in movies nor that described in novels it’s completely a different story in real life . I dreamed that beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming. But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It also has thrown’s in it, it is not that beautiful as it appears but it sure is lovely in it’s own way. It’s not just about being with your beloved and having a fun time together. There is much more to it. It has its own responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises. I can’t wake up at anytime I want to and like I once use to do now it’s entirely different. I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family. I can’t laze around in my pajamas throughout the day. I am expected to be presentable every time. I can’t just go out anytime I want to and like I use to do once. I am expected to be there for the needs of the family at anytime mostly at every times. I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to. I am expected to be active and around the family. I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family. And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again. I want to come home to my favorite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn’t have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear- to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you. And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you mom for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same. Love you. Happy phuza thursday to all you folks.
Posted on: Thu, 23 Oct 2014 08:00:25 +0000
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