A Letter to All Men: Date with Purpose Dear Guys, First of all, if you are a woman reading this, think of it as “A Guide to Finding the Perfect Man.” This is a call to action for men to become real men, but this also is directly relevant to all my female readers as well. So, guys. It’s tough out there for a pimp. Three 6 Mafia knows it. I know it. We all know it. With the feminist revolution of the last 50 years, we have experienced shifting gender roles that have never been seen before. Women, this is not an indictment of you and your growing societal stature. Finally, gender equality is a tangible thing. It’s great. But even for the uber pro-feminist, would you not agree that you still need a strong, protective male in your life? Ehh maybe she wouldn’t but you get the point. Even as women become the main financial providers for the family, the CEOs of companies, and more than just a loving, faithful spouse, a man should still be a man. In today’s society, however, men are not being men. There’s a pervasive culture of passivity that has to stop. Guys, we have to be the ones to finally step up and do something about it. It’s evident in dating. It’s evident in relationships. It’s evident in the Church. Somewhere along the line, guys became too cool to do anything. Doing something slightly out of the ordinary has made a man “gay” or “lame”. Showing emotion or even the slightest hint at romanticism has led to an endless barrage of insults from a guy’s peers. (Trust me, I saw “Safe Haven” last night…) Rather, playing hard to get has become the norm. Asking a girl out on a date? Forget that. You might get rejected. But if she comes up to you at a party, you’re in. You’re cool. Exerting effort to get what you want is so overrated. This is the problem with the young males in our society. And it has to stop now. I’m 100% guilty of this as well. Out of curiosity, I read “The Game” and investigated NLP — look it up. Basically, the
Posted on: Mon, 25 Nov 2013 08:13:45 +0000
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