A PIECE OF MY MIND!!!! For some days now, Ive been reading and patiently following a story. At first, I tried not to believe what it is I read, because Ive been in a position whereby people believed the first hand info and didnt believe mine because it was planned for a long time and unfortunately it was according to the plan... What I learned from the story and from past experiences is never to share your flaws, weaknesses, mistakes, regrets, problems, taboos to/with anyone.. Because someday, later in future when things fall out, it would be used against you, and because these persons/people know your weaknesses, they would know where to hit you hard and trust me, it would be painful.. Very painful... A group was created for Women Empowerment, it served its purpose and at the same time served another purpose. I was happy a group was created to empower Nigerian Women from always thinking they are the reason their husbands cheat and the way to make him change was through prayers, dressing seductively and preparing his favorite meals.. I was happy, at least, while it lasted... Not until the hidden activities blew up... 2names kept popping out, but I tried not to believe.. Ive been there before, you see.. There were people that supported the 2names mentioned, and there were people that also supported the people that mentioned the 2names and not so surprising, there were people that were in-between.. I have been there before... Secrets were blown.. Regrets were used against people.. Mistakes were used as a ridicule, peoples lives were scrutinized... I say, you dont know shit about people... Keep your life details to yourself... I learned mine the hard way.. Its funny how a few people that claim to have your good at heart, become the very people that would tear you down.. Dont tell people about your weaknesses, dont tell people your mistakes, dont tell me things you did, dont reveal.. If possible, die with it.. That bestfriend of yours will one day kill you with your secrets... Ive been there before... I used to be a girl that will cry because I was called names.. I used to be a girl that will want to deactivate her account as an escape route to cyber bully.. I used to be that girl nobody truly knew in depth but are quick to judge from things seen.. I would run to tell supposed friends, it got blown on my face when these friends used the weakness I told them about against me.. Thats when I knew, your friends can use your weakness to kill you.. Ever wondered why it happens, you tell your friend you hate a fruit or food, and this friend always eats that food/fruit or flashes it to you??? Ive been bottling up emotions and hatred.. Hatred for the wrong kind of people.. Hatred!!! For those people that have sought for advise, help or suggestions in my inbox.. Reason why I give excuses and not say a thing.. № body should know shid about you.. Die with your secrets, faults and flaws.. Reason why I will always love (C,mr iiiice) ... Nobody knows shid about him.. I dont even know his weaknesses nor his flaws.. It would be difficult to blackmail him... Dont trust anyone... When you fall out with that person.. Watch your story come out in the open and been judged by others who are in № way better or will ever be better than you... #dropsPen... #WalksOut!!!!!
Posted on: Wed, 20 Aug 2014 10:26:48 +0000