~ • A Womans Importance from a Mans Perspective • ~ Ladies, before I begin to go too in-depth about the man in your life or the man you’re engaged to, let me give you my wisdom as it relates to the significance and importance of a woman. Let’s start at the beginning. Well, the Quran records, in the chapter of the #Baqarah, the creation of a male by the name of Adam. The Quran states that Allaah created Him. That’s a powerful image to be made in. After the formation of this male, Allaah named him Adam. He then proceeded to give him purpose, identity, security and acceptance. These four things are so powerful. Every man in your life is searching for these four things RIGHT NOW. If he doesn’t have someone to teach him where to get them, he will go in search of them for himself. This could be detrimental for his health and the health of those around him. Allaah also specifically told Adam to be RESPONSIBLE for the garden he was placed in and not to eat of the tree of good and evil. Please note that Allaah did not once say this to Eve [Hawa]. He particularly said it to Adam. Why is this important? Well, Adam was made to be in the head position. He was made to take the lead. From the formation of his body to the way he thinks, he was made to be a leader of sorts. Adam had the privilege of having Allah teaching him all the names of everything,. Yes, Adam named them all. He was there with Allaah. He was another walking, talking, speaking-spirit. He was given authority and dominion from the Creator. Now, why in the world would Allaah make a woman? Well, the Quran states that Allaah saw that Adam was alone, and there is no reason for a man to be alone. When he is alone he becomes selfish and is deprived from reality. The world becomes his and his alone. As long as a man is alone, he can never truly abide in love. Why? Well, love cannot live in selfishness. Allaah made sure Adam was not alone. Allaah put Adam to sleep and took out his rib. The purpose of our ribs is to protect the lungs and heart. Your lungs are primarily responsible for the exchange of oxygen and carbon dioxide between the air we breathe and the blood. Your heart keeps your blood pumping around your body, and never takes a break from it. The ribs provide protection for them both. A man cannot live without his lungs. If you can’t breathe, then it’s impossible to live. The same is true for the heart. We all need some way for blood to circulate throughout our body, so we must have a heart. Allaah took what protects two of the most important vessels of our body to make a woman. This allows us to conclude that she is vital to the sustaining of life and the circulation of our world! Thanks Allaah for WOMEN! Once Eve was created, she was presented to Adam by Allaah. She did exactly what Allaah instructed ADAM not to do. Remember that Allaah never told Eve not to eat of the tree. It was Adam’s responsibility to communicate that plan and purpose over to Eve. The same is true today. It is the man’s responsibility to communicate over to his “woman” the vision and instructions Allaah has specifically given to him! There are no exceptions ladies. Don’t let a man ride you if he can’t give you directions! A man MUST KNOW where he is going in life. He has a brain and he can talk to Allaah. Tell him to read it until he hears something from Allaah. You MUST NOT SETTLE for an average Joe who is willing to squander his life and not be responsible for what Allaah has said to him [Men are the protectors and maintainers of women #Quran]. Don’t let him sell you his pipedreams of finally selling his mixtape, finally joining the professional leagues or finally getting a job. You should only listen to so much crap before you realize that he is full of dung! If Allaah hasn’t spoken to him; then, you need to keep moving. Allaah made you to HELP! Why in the world would you want to be with a man who doesn’t know where he’s going and, sadly, has no clue on how to get there? He’s just living life day-by-day. He has settled for a mediocre job that hasn’t gotten him anywhere. He has no purpose and no drive. He prides himself on being a hustler. Please! Give me a break! Allaah’s not in the hustling business. [To be continued Inn shaa Allaah] - Next post!
Posted on: Thu, 07 Aug 2014 07:44:52 +0000
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